I am a reformed #1, by the way, and keep my bass at sternum level. The first drummer in the band we had wanted me kicked out because I started wearing my bass higher, which is funny because we ended up kicking him out because he was a horrible person and mediocre drummer.
I can't imagine being nearly kicked out of a band ... because of your strap height. Of all the things to worry about.
Had all the other problems in the world been solved at that moment?
Freaking drummers.