if the crowd doesn't react to (or like) the song, it doesn't matter how "cool" you as a musician think it is
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The band I'm in has gotten into a rut. At festivals and the like we're a blues band, playing the BL's originals, but in a bar we play anything and everything. The BL wants me to sing more. In most every band I've been in in the past I've sang a lot. Some nights in THIS band I don't sing lead all night long. But the BL wants me to learn some new songs that I can sing. However, they're not saying okay to any of the songs I'm selecting. There's either no response (to a text with a song) or "well, if we're going to do a song by ______why don't we do one of his hits? Then the BL will turn around and propose a totally unknown song because he likes it. Anything modernish at all and/or country gets crickets. I think we need to break out of our 1-4-5 12 bar comfort zone and learn some music that will challenge us, get us out of our comfort zone, and hopefully attract new folks to our gigs.
Thoughts?
I totally agree. If the BL wants a band member to sing lead, then the song(s) should be something that band member knows and sings well.Your bandleader is being a doofus. If he wants you to sing more, he can start by adding some things you already know, and what would be the reason not to if they are already popular songs?
Yeah, like I said, at this point I'm just going that ask the BL and the other members to suggest songs for me to sing. Our season is about over so I don't that we will even rehearse again this year, anyway, so it might be a moot point.I totally agree. If the BL wants a band member to sing lead, then the song(s) should be something that band member knows and sings well.
if the crowd doesn't react to (or like) the song, it doesn't matter how "cool" you as a musician think it is
I agree that not every song needs to be a crowd pleaser, but MOST of them should be. I think the BL likes me, he just doesn't like my song choices. He's stuck in a rut. He's 10 years younger than me but he likes songs from before he was born, much older songs than I like.Not every single song needs to be a crowd pleaser. It's good to throw in a band pleaser every once in a while (A deeper cut that you guys enjoy and absolutely crush)
Also, I get the impression your BL doesn't like you. I'd be lookin around for greener pastures.
That sounds cool.Cool songs can be crowds pleasers for sure.
Lead singer has a solo repertoire that we are currently following and i didn't think that
7 nation army, this is how we do it, and everyday people were the right songs but he makes them work and they are working a storm with young crowds. Talking of which, this is getting young kids involved where you never see them at classic gigs.
We are a funky outfit and people are singing and dancing so far..
FWIW and IMO to anyone familiar with and into the hair metal genre those two songs are classics. Well known enough to make it onto a playlist, not really unknown songs.
"Talking in You Sleep" is a song that I did when it was new and it would be new, to us, in the band that I'm in. We actually learned it but never played it. The BL said it didn't fit into the format of what we're doing. It's not a I-IV-V 12 bar song. Maybe I'll try it again. Thanks!....... Why not learn Talking In Your Sleep?.........![]()
This made me smile.…play Couldn't Stand the Weather or Cold Shot.

"Talking in You Sleep" is a song that I did when it was new and it would be new, to us, in the band that I'm in. We actually learned it but never played it. The BL said it didn't fit into the format of what we're doing. It's not a I-IV-V 12 bar song. Maybe I'll try it again. Thanks!
I agree that OP's BL seems like a bit of a tool.Your bandleader is being a doofus. If he wants you to sing more, he can start by adding some things you already know, and what would be the reason not to if they are already popular songs?
I'm also used to singing more and it's starting to make me a little stir crazy that nobody wants me to sing these days. One band I was in gave me a similar situation; asked me if there was something I wanted to sing and when I made a suggestion was then told that we don't need any more songs right now and they really needed me to be an anchor for the rhythm guitarist. This "anchor" thing has come out in more than one band; apparently if you can play deep in the pocket your role with some people is to drag along those who are challenged.
So my new rule moving forward is that if you can't give me any leads, don't expect me to sing a ton of harmonies. And I'm not joining any more bands that don't want me to do both.
I agree.It aint rocket science - the more tunes you play that people know and like, the more work you'll get....
that's the rut, right thereThe rut is the 1-4-5 12 bar bluesy type songs, i.e. "Keep your Hands to Yourself" that can just be jammed on without actually learning parts.
example: In our 80's hair tribute we play a song called Never Enough by LA guns.