Cut off the headstock of his favorite guitar or microphone if he is only a vocalist and place it in his bed.
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That's the rub.
I'm a band manager. It's time-consuming and expensive. I'm the one paying for these pictures, and sometimes my personal band fund is a little depleted.
I understand wanting to get your face off of the band's on-line presence a.s.a.p., especially if it was a bad break up, but let's deal with some realities here. The band wants to continue and present as a band. You were the last bass player. Give them a break. It doesn't need to be punitive or vindictive. I'm sure as soon as they work in a new member and get the time/effort/money for new pics, they will.
You can ask, but what are you going to do if they refuse?
Every smart phone has a camera. Cost of reshooting a band photo, unless you are in a big popular band is really a non issue, and a pretty poor excuse. The band manager / leader leads get to get up off their lazy tailbones and just either shoot the photos themselves, or have it done. I mean let's face it, musicians tend to be a pretty creative crowd after all!
If you really want to pursue this, other folks may have forgotten that there is a small claims court process in most (if not every) states that allows you to pursue this without a lawyer. Do a quick Google search for "small claims court XXXXX" (where XXXXX is your state.) You can see if your matter is qualified, which I believe it will be.
At that point, you have a pretty good argument. I'd send another letter to the band leader that's dated and mentions the option of legal action, and gives him a deadline to remove your photo. Send it USPS via a process that requires a signature on delivery, and keep your receipt and conformation to show the date.
After that, if he doesn't comply, you have the angels on your side. It's up to you whether you want to take the time and hassle to go through this, but it's an option that does not require a lawyer.
Since then the band leader has been using an old band photo to advertise upcoming gigs.
And you STILL have no damages.
I didn't assume that damages were needed - just removing the photos.
The photo in post #68 gives me an idea. Someone needs to start a thread on most embarrassing band photos.
This +1. Not a big deal.Lots of bands have used my picture after I was no longer in the band. My current band uses the previous bass player's pic in a lot of their advertisements. To me it means less than nothing. I think it's best to just move on.
The only thing that would make me ask them to remove it is if people were going to see the show because they were going to see me, and were surprised that I wasn't there.
That's never happened.