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Really need to blow some steam

bassike said:
I agree I know it is very stupid to want to record a real album and invest all kind of money before people even knows you.
And I 've told them that of course we like the music cause it's our band but who is to say that people will like it.

It just makes me mad that I was not smart enough to leave years ago.
That is the reason why I'm trying to stick around till the album is completed cause if I quit now it'll be the waist of time and nothing out of it, except the learning experience to not deal with this kind of people; and if I make it till the album is finished, I'd have the album and I could at least somehow justify all this time invested.

It can take more time and effort than you imagine to finish the album... and You may be two nears from now wishing you had quit two years ago...

I was in a similar situation once, staying with my first real band only because I wanted that cd for myself at least. The music was great. Some band members not So much. Drummer left, so we resorted to hire one for the recording, someone we knew...
A month before we were to record, they kicked me out. By then I had not been able to show my contempt for the guitarist and it was obvious I was fed up.
They recorded the album without me, guitarist played bass. Album was lacklustre, they spent way too much money, argued a lot and after they left the studio they went their separate ways, angry at eachother.
Since then, I have learnt to walk early if things are not fun.
As a result, I am now pretty busy, and everyone I play with is someone I can rely on and call enough of a friend. It did not happen overnight, but it's like a snow ball rolling downhill: hang out with the right people who hang with the right people... and You get yourself a pretty decent network of people you can depend on. Get rid off flakes, life is way too short. You already misspent two years, cut your losses and don't add more time to the count...

That's my opinion.