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RELATIONSHIPS SUCK
- Thread starter CBNJ
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How do you know how old I am?! Probably in my profile.And close! She just turned 22, but she has the attitude: "I'm old enough to drink, I enjoy going out and having a drink".
She's saying that she wants to be able to go out and have fun and do whatever she wants, aka break up. But she said it would be better if we 'split up for now' because she doesn't think we can fix it. I just don't understand how they love you one week, and not the next.
i've never met a girl who hasn't done this. i'm surprised yours didnt do it as soon as she hit 21
i bet she used the line "i feel like i'm missing out on my life"
- Oct 7, 2000
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One of the greatest pieces of relationship advice I ever got was that they're all practice. We can learn and grow from them if we see them as such, or become bitter, as many do. I always did the former, and after 30 years of practice, with many different woman, I'm a happily married man in a great relationship with an awesome gal. Hang in there. Relationships do suck sometimes, but we heal, and we move on.
Close! She said "this is the time of my life where I should be going out and having crazy nights and doing what I want, I don't want to be tied down".
Hmmm. Well they SAY the party's never over til you're ....."old" but I'll admit it's easier to find them in your twenties. I say offer fwb.
Here here!
I actually started looking at relationships this way about a year ago (part of my whole not taking them too seriously thing) and it has been working out great. I actually walk away from relationships much happier than I used to because of it, and I tend to learn at least one or two new things about myself and about what I want/need from life.
Relationship = a really long one night stand where people stay together because they find it convenient to be around each other.
Don't take relationship advice from scorpionldr, take relationship advice from maki.
Go tap a bunch of hot asian chicks. You'll feel better about your breakup and you get to tap a bunch of hot asian chicks. It's a win-win.
Go tap a bunch of hot asian chicks. You'll feel better about your breakup and you get to tap a bunch of hot asian chicks. It's a win-win.
This. Consider this an opportunity to explore all the ladies you can. You should be tapping everything that will let you (make sure you're safe and wear a jimmy though). Quantity over quality. Enjoy.
I'll admit, Maki's older. Which means I'll have a whole stable of Asian chicks by the time he's done.
So by all means listen to him.
If you say so. Most of my relationships started out as friendships that, for whatever set of circumstances, turned into something more after a couple years. Funny how you never plan that to happen and yet it does haha.
I would guess that this chick is about your age.
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Nah I'm over 18
I'd like to think its more but we both have reasons for being there and so far I have yet to see a lot more. That doesn't mean companionship isn't there, it just means....well it's one of those parts that are expected to develop in it all.
Personally I found it easier just to start fresh than to try and make one thing into another thing.
