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Retiring in 2021 ........ Anyone Else?

I exited the proverbial rat race in late 2019 just prior to the Covid debacle. As did my SO. We're both very happy not steppin' and fetchin' for paychecks anymore.

Took a little advance planning. Getting completely debt free prior to pulling the plug was our big priority which took some discipline and sacrifices during the six or so years leading up to us retiring. And there were a few other strategic moves we made regarding our finances as well. Moving into a smaller, far more easily managed and maintained home was another priority. Because who wants to spend their remaining years continually fussing with the upkeep (or paying the extra expenses and property taxes) that go with a larger home? Reducing unnecessary expenses for things we've long since lost interest in but continued spending on, more through force of habit than anything else was another. (Habitual and impulse spending is an easy trap to fall into when you've got a steady paycheck coming in.)

Once we got that all sorted it turned out we needed far less money than we though we would need - or planned for. So we're now quite comfortable with our current income despite it being significantly less that it was prior to our retirement. The fact it's stress free income makes any trade-offs more than worth it.

Oddly enough, we're both busier than ever. But it's a good busy since we're pursuing our own goals and playing our own game these days. And the only responsibilities we now shoulder are the ones we've elected to take on.

It's a lifestyle change I couldn't recommend more highly. :)
 
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So Anyway, I retired in 2013 at 62 and started saying 'yes' to just about every band gig that was offered. Spent several years in 4 very different bands and seemed to make it all work. I think I played 90+ gigs one year...and actually didn't lose money on my tax return :woot:. All the playing was fun, and fed my ego and spirit as only live music can. I'm glad I had the opportunity to do it.

Now that things are picking up again, you might also have a few more opportunities to say yes. Good Luck to you.
 
WOW!! Thanks to all that have and are responding to this thread. Nice to read many many different experiences and perspectives on the subject.
With me being self-employed, I am ALWAYS doing something for my business, from 6am usually to 8 or 9pm, plus weekends, vacation, etc. Like I say, I'm ALWAYS doing business of some sort. With the COVID thing happening and me being a window covering installer, I haven't had time to breathe. As soon as the pandemic hit, everybody stayed at home and realized the opportunity to hang out at one of the "essential" places that sold all kinds of home improvement stuff. My work dropped off for maybe a couple of weeks, then it just took off. I've never been busier. I know this lead to my shoulders getting way overworked. The wife and I ran the $$ figures and decided I should retire, get surgery then find a different part-time job. My wife said this a few weeks back: "I wonder what it would be like for you to go to a "regular" job, then come home from work and leave your work....AT WORK??!?!?!!?" I love her!!
 
I just retired last month, literally one day after becoming eligible to take my health benefits and a couple of other goodies into retirement.

Had I been able to do it in 2015, I would've. The last six years have been sheer hell, and the worst thing about it was that I had seen it coming and couldn't do anything about it unless I wanted to screw myself and my family royally.

Hoping for a few productive years to finish some writing and music that I've been working on...but the idea of finally being retired feels so good it's scary.
 
not there yet but do see a bright light at the end of the tunnel (please don't be a train...)

a few years away from 59 1/2 (when i can dip into my 401k with no penalties).

the only thing i worry about is medical insurance. i can work part-time for the medical until medicare kicks in at 65 but would rather exit the rat race asap. any insurance tips for those of us about to jump off the hamster wheel?
 
Taking note of how many of us are long-timers in the IT/software career path. As one of those myself, it often feels like half of what I do is re-learn things I used to know because other engineers with not enough to do decided to reinvent something.

I know now how my career will end. One day I'll encounter a problem I've known the answer to for 30+ years, only to find that the solution has changed yet again, and I will throw up my hands, scream "That's it! I'm out!", and rage quit retire. ;)
 
I dream about retiring everyday. I'll be 59 this summer and am looking at retiring between 62 and 64. Pension, 401k, SSI and some revenue producing properties; I'll be okay money-wise. The plan is for the wife and I to buy the big sailboat and cruise for a few years. Then settle down somewhere: beach, desert, mountains, ex-pat to Panama/Costa Rica, who knows. We can't decide.

I'm not gonna do what my dad did; retire at 81!! Yeah, he's got like 3 retirement plans paying him a ton of money each month, but he's 90 and in rapid decline due to dementia. So, basically 9 years to enjoy the retired life??? No thank you. I'd rather be poor and have fun than rich and not know it.
 
Got pension and a small bit of 401k left(used a lot to put children through college so they'd not be saddled with debt while I had $$$$ in my 401K).

Good man. Having spent my career in higher education I know how crippling student debt can be and I wanted my daughter to be spared that, so I paid off her loans for both Bachelor's and Master's programs. But, due to her academics, she was able to bag generous financial aid awards from both programs, which put the outstanding balances within my grasp.

If you follow my example it's best to make the payments on both principal and interest rather than interest alone.
Paying interest alone really does not help much, if at all.
 
I dream about retiring everyday. I'll be 59 this summer and am looking at retiring between 62 and 64. Pension, 401k, SSI and some revenue producing properties; I'll be okay money-wise. The plan is for the wife and I to buy the big sailboat and cruise for a few years. Then settle down somewhere: beach, desert, mountains, ex-pat to Panama/Costa Rica, who knows. We can't decide.

I'm not gonna do what my dad did; retire at 81!! Yeah, he's got like 3 retirement plans paying him a ton of money each month, but he's 90 and in rapid decline due to dementia. So, basically 9 years to enjoy the retired life??? No thank you. I'd rather be poor and have fun than rich and not know it.

I want to see you with that sailboat in the mountains.
 
You make a great point about people not being able to afford stuff in retirement. That’s something a lot of people don’t pay attention to at all. For example I had to have a big sit down with my mom about what her expenses would look like in retirement. She had a huge house at the time, in-ground pool and all that. Her light bill was literally more than my mortgage payment. Luckily she decided to move into a smaller house but yeah I don’t think people realize that electric bills never go away. You never “pay them off” and most people can’t afford to pay those bills after they retire. Not saying nobody should buy a big house. But if they do buy one it should be looked at more as an investment knowing they will sell it and it won’t be their permanent home.

If my monthly electric bill exceeds sixty dollars, then something has gone off the rails. Small house, ceiling fans; stove and fridge consume most of the power.
 
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I retired 2 years ago on May 1st
48 years with the same company, but different owners
I played is bands for 41 of the 48 years I was employed any where from 1to 7 nights a week.
Still love to play out we 17 gigs last year and about the same on the books this year
Not into the recording thing, as I love preforming to live crowds, it really make the heart pump
Be well my friends
Duke