Hi.
What is the "secret" to shaping bridge feet? I tried a few years back by placing sand paper on the top and rubbing the bridge against it (before installing adjusters) but the result was less than optimum. I ended up letting a pro properly shape it for me.
There's really no secret, just a tool.
Called a leg spreader

. ( aren't all DB's just that)
Since I'm not a luthier, mine is just a long M6 (1/4) nut with carriage bolts on both ends. One nut and 2 sets of bolts are enough to cover the entire range from 1/8 to 5/4 bass bridges.
A rigging screw type would be much better, obviously, just haven't gotten around to make one. Yet

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The method I use, is that I rough shape the feet without the spreader, string the bass up to tune, install the spreader so it is snug, and shape the feet to match the contours of the top.
If the feet flex a lot, or
if the top is very soft, it's a good precaution to place thin, flat strips of wood between the top and the pre-shaped legs when stringing up to tune. Otherwise the inside edges of the feet may dig into the top. NOT RECOMMENDED.
BUT, I feel the need to stress this once again: I AM NOT a luthier, just a DIYholic with very inexpensive basses, so do take my advice keeping that in mind.
Regards
Sam