The issue is that he is an incredible drummer, we rehearse in his house and he started the band. But he is one of those people who thinks they have all the answers. He can be difficult to deal with because he is very assertive with his point of view.
This really sounds like a train wreck. Sounds like you don't have a book of material large enough to play bar gigs. So is it really an issue?
He has all the answers = Band is doomed to fall apart.
By the way, how old are you guys?
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