Jazz, have you tried slackening the strings, completely loosening the truss, and letting it sit overnight before re-tightening? That did the trick for one of my basses with similar symptoms. I've had another bass plek'd and that ran about $75. Need to get my T-40 done. It's got a groove under the D running from about frets 5 to 12. Have you given the frets a thorough once over? Also, what strings do you use? I noticed the ugly fretwear before I had my bass plek'd, after she'd had exclusively ss strings for a couple of years. That may be circumstantial, but the ss strings felt more textured and they're certainly harder then the nickel frets. Could be in my head, but been all nickel since just to be safe.