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So, my neighbor is angry...

I thought the suggestion about trying to catch your neighbor when he's not sauced and learn a bit more that might help you two reach some kind of reasonable compromise was a good one.



This is not a bad idea, especially if you have a chance to have a sober conversation with your neighbor. We don't know how your basement is outfitted currently, but sometimes even bookshelves with books at varying differences from the shelf edge can help.

That said, as others have pointed out, bass freqs are tough to tamp down.
It you can catch him sober, offer to let him know in advance when and how late you plan to play, maybe he will be a little cooler about the situation. If he's a drinker, nothing wrong with that, then don't count on any consistency.

Never underestimate the power of sound. I can't practice bass at my home without headphones. I can't really even play acoustic unless everybody, meaning family, it either in a good mood or gone.
 
you might want to go outside and see just how loud or low frequency booming it is
from his direction...let the other guys play and step outside for a min, then adjust from there.
or...just an idea...invite him over next time you guys get together to jam, share some beers with him, and take some requests.
 
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does he have a wife and kids? just a wife? one kid and a dog? an elderly parent? is he bipolar?
seriously,.. he may have a lot on his plate. it's best, as others have alluded, to discuss his schedule and work around it, imo.
also,.. if you are pounding root notes all day, try throwing in a 5th or octave. maybe you're playing slap! :bag:
 
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Call the police, or better yet go down there. Make a report of exactly what happened so it is documented and get a specific recommendation from them on how to proceed the next time this neighbor throws a fit. What are your rights AND what are your neighbors. Any specific db level in the ordinances would be good to be aware of also. Be known as a reasonable and concerned citizen to the people who will be called when this happens the next time. Odds are there may be more at play than your music so get on top of this.
 
I was the victim of a neighbor playing music very loudly in the early AM. I'm not talking about I can barely hear music below me, I'm talking about full blown, maxed out EDM playing at 6:00 AM. I did not know which neighbor it was.

My solution? I turned my 410HLF face down on the floor. Maxed out my amp bass EQ, maxed the gain, and played quarter note B's on a 5'er for about 20 minutes. The neighbor came looking for the a$$hole that was disturbing his ability to enjoy his music. I merely told him I was enjoying my music (quarter note B's at full volume). We got into a little argument over it because I wasn't playing music, I was being mean. But when all was said and done he got the idea that you shouldn't only consider yourself when jamming out at home.

As a result I had other neighbors that knew or heard about what I did and thanked me. They thanked me profusely. They had no idea I was a full gigging bass player (4-10 gigs per month). The reason? I chose my practice volumes by considering my neighbors.

In respect to 3rd shifters, I get it. I pulled many years of over-night shifts. In my opinion, there are way less people working 3rds, than 1st or 2nd shifts. It was my responsibility to make sure I could sleep during the day. Not my neighbors responsibility. I had to get black-out curtains, white noise machines, etc, etc. Not the landscapers problem, it was my problem.

As far as the OP, you just need to follow the local ordinance, make peace with neighbor if possible. If not, tell him he has the same ability to move to the country to enjoy his drunken retirement. Good luck!
 
This is one of many reasons I "moved to the country". :)

We were in an apartment for a short while during preparations for our move from Seattle. The woman below us would bang on her ceiling when we played with our dog. I honestly can't imagine what it must be like to spend any real time in an apartment complex AND try to live a normal life.
 
My humble hobby studio is set up for direct recording, with an Aguilar Tone Hammer Preamp DI, Zoom G3 (guitar), mics, and small Yamaha mixer. I also have the option of running the mixer into a Behringer headphone amp with four separate outs, each of which has its own volume control. I wouldn't suggest buying all that just for quiet practice, but depending on your current setup, you might be within striking distance of an ampless solution for a drummerless situation such as you describe. (Many of the Zoom products also have on-board drum loops, which aren't fancy but work for basic timekeeping.)
 
I filled in with a band once, the guitarist armed with a 100 watt full stack Marshall. The neighbors called the law on the bar...and they showed up and told us to turn it down. He didn't an hour later the law was back and were not happy. The bar owner was trying to work something out when the guitarist promptly turns the Marshall wide open, hits the loudest G chord in the world, and starts singing "take this job and shove it". I unplugged my gear and went home.....
Though I don't suggest this route- it does have a certain charm about it!
 
I moved to the country ASAIC (as soon as I could) - that was back in 1987. It's nice not having a neighbor for hundreds of yards.

Two stories:
A) There are shots heard all around my area, and sometimes the neighbor likes to play w/Tannerite on Saturday evenings. Many years ago some of us were having target practice. Neighbor stopped by and said the shots bothered/scared his dog - could I/we not shoot anymore? I told him that was not a possibility, but I did consider him during future practice. Now I never shoot before 8 a.m., or after dark (unless using the muffler). I think he needed to train his dog not to be gun-shy. ;)

B) A few months ago I took the 2X410 rig outside so I could crank it up a bit. "Hearing not-so-great anymore" Dad was in his closed house, across the other hillside, 650 yards away, and thought someone was having a party (he was right!). That Bass travels a long way. :D

Some folks aren't happy unless they have something to complain about - hope it works out for you.

Cheers,
 
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"drove him nuts" sound klike he was already there and then some.+ 1 mil for livin in the country!As mentioned above some people aren't happy unless they're miserable.
 
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I agree with the apology/communication/peace offering ideas. But another take you my look into is IEMs.

Our band went to IEMs for monitoring and found that at rehearsal we don't even need amps. Or they can be very quiet. I go direct with a preamp pedal. One guitar player has a peavey with DI out and the other has his amp at barely audible with a mic on it.

Out drummer switched to electronic drums. Roland TD30.

I use big over ear cans and it sounds monstrous. Awesome. We practice in the guitar players basement week nights and his wife is usually upstairs grading papers and his kids are doing homework. All they hear is our voices and only barely.

The drums make it a really big change, but for just guitar/bass/keys practice you should be able to do it with little outlay. You can get awesome tone, the volume can be as low or high as each of you like. With thumping cans over your ears I'm amazed at how I get immersed in the sound.

So, maybe some out of the box thinking will give you additional options.