Perhaps a bit late to this discussion.. But reading through the comments I felt that you (the op). Or maybe someone else who’s been soldering for a bit and searching the threads trying to figure out what the heck they’re doing wrong.
Oftentimes novice’s (particularly novice musicians) getting into electronics despite putting in the practice, believe that
they are the problem. It’s something I struggled with early on, inexperience & lacking any kind of “real” electronics background/training lead me to wonder
“man, am I really cut out for this stuff? Maybe I need to stick with the subjective type artsy/creative musical stuff which comes naturally??”
(*Nowadays I design audio circuits for pro recording equipment. But I have a fairly large box of about 15 fully wired & assembled amplifier & guitar pedal stripboard /PCB’s that I couldn’t ever get working!)
Here’s the thing~The relative ease & speed of any soldering project VERY dependent on the type & quality of your soldering pen/iron, OR ideally digitally temp controlled adjustable soldering station w/several different sizes & shapes of tips the best you can afford. Yep, unfortunately the filthy 5$ or even 30$ amazon Chinese special soldering pen or the dirty old one you borrowed from your buddy which you hold solder to for hours and never melts.. That’s your problem not your ability level! Irons & Fancy Stations like the Hakko fx888d which made soldering effortless aside, There are other things that can make a pretty big difference to your work;
1) Rosin activated RA & High activity water soluble (careful this need to be cleaned) Fluxes in liquid or paste form can really speed up wetting time and flow, plus makes very strong shiny joints. So many ways this stuff can be used and can be so helpful for stubborn alloys or tight areas you’ve already soldered (like grounds on the back of those persnickitty push/pull Bass-potentiometers!!)
2) A newer fully functional nicely cleaned & tinned tip! The cheap irons fluctuate between low>high heat so much that the stress burns up even the best cared for tips. Partially damaged, corroding tips, or anything that doesn’t accept solder super easily over the entire active surface goes in the trash.. I would buy all the tip tinners/cleaners to try reviving the many tips I went through and even spent 12-15$ on a tip which I would then put on a 12$ soldering pen.. I’d need a new tip every time I soldered!! My Hakko station I mentioned before kept the exact same tip for about 6 years of every day use in absolute pristine condition!!!
3) Some may disagree with this; But regardless of the Iron, tip, fluxes, temperature’s etc.. Avoid kitchen sponges soaked with cold tap water at all costs!! The bad chemical makeup of tap water is reason alone, the dirty sponges, but particularly the temperature fluctuations from heat drops caused by the cold water.. can destroy tips. I love the tip cleaner copper wire balls like Hakko & others offer. Keeps your tip temp stable, only takes one pass to entirely clean, and has fluxing & tip rejuvenating powder in it. Why not??
Ps; after I said all that, The type of potentiometers you mentioned can actually give me trouble as well.. It’s the way they’re manufactured and the solder unfriendly alloy they use that makes them such a pain in the ass..