Everyone has their own schedule, and no two bands are exactly alike. I see bands all the time on craigslist that say they don't WANT more than one or two gigs a month. So if a guy wants to gig every weekend, he's going to need three or four of them. Sometimes you get these kind of Venn-diagram bands that overlap each other; you know, we've got seven people in a wedding band but three of us also play wine bars as a jazz combo and four or five times a year the other four get together with two other guys to put on a disco party... Add up all the separate mix-and-matches and the guy has four or five "bands" he's in.
Anyway, to the OP - sorry to hear about the breakup. It happens, bands come and go. Sounds like you'll keep playing and will do fine.
Anyway, to the OP - sorry to hear about the breakup. It happens, bands come and go. Sounds like you'll keep playing and will do fine.