All these discussions about tone would be a bit less emotional if people stuck to:
1) conveying their personal perceptions without insisting that if others don't experience the same, they must have defective senses / be lying
2) discussion of actual science
3) recordings
So, If I say "3 inch Bakelite basses sound fruity to me", and you think that your 3 inch Bakelite bass sounds "fishy" instead, then following the options above, you can
1) tell me you think yours sounds fishy, and leave it at that
2) discuss some actual scientific research that shows why 3 inch Bakelite basses sound fishy (e.g. a lot of fish oil is used in Bakelite production)
3) record your bass so it can be compared with the other guy's. Maybe they don't sound so different after all but your idea of 'fruity' isn't the same as his.
Not having a pop at anyone in particular on this thread, just an observation on how these discussions tend to go bad (and of course your observations may be different

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