If you're deliberately confusing your audience. and messing them up for your band's (or your own) amusement, you
are wanking AFAIC.
And maybe I'm misreading where you're coming from with some of this, but there's a certain tone of superiority being directed towards the uninitiated/non-musician that seems to be a good part of your post. And if that's the case, you've stumbled into the same trap that's largely responsible for torpedoing classic prog rock back in the '70s. Too much ego and arrogance displayed on the part of the players towards their listeners. Maybe Frank Zappa was able to get away with that
shtick for most of his career. But not too many other bands have. Just sayin'...