Yes, I can definitely relate to this.
I own 40+ basses and I've owned+played LOTS more over the years. Stingrays are the only basses I've never found useful at all. They have an extremely baked in tone that sounds terribly outdated to me and despite what Stingray-fans say they really only have that one sound: A very nasal "bridge pickup on steroids" tone, just with more or less boom/zing depending on how you set the tone controls. Like it or not, that nasal Stingray-character in the mids can't be dialed out no matter what (at least not without excessive external eq'ing).
I often hear people say Stingrays are more versatile than I give them credit for: "I play soul/jazz/metal/country/psychedelic rock on my Stingray and it works great". Well, I'm sure it WORKS (as in makes sound) but to me it simply sounds like a Stingray playing soul/jazz/metal/country/psychedelic rock and most often with a tone that isn't even remotely right for the genre (to MY ears). I mean, Motown with a Ray? It makes my skin crawl just thinking about it.
I guess the problem for me is that I'm really not a fan of bridge pickup tones on most (but not all!) basses and the Stingray is like an extreme version of your typical bridge pickup tone. It's not just that I don't like PLAYING Stingrays. With VERY few exceptions I don't like LISTENING to them either.
I know I'm not alone. Most bass players and practically ALL non-bassist musicians I know can't stand the Stingray tone. I also find it fascinating that many "best strings for Stingray"-threads around here are really about "how to make a Stingray sound less like a Stingray". Well, it can't be done. Trust me, I've tried.
It's my least favourite bass ever, by quite some distance. Of course, a lot of people LOVE Stingrays. We're all different' which is great!

Enjoy your Rays and make great music with them! Just don't expect me to like it.
