Yeah your tone fits your style nicely, it sucks that you band didn't give a ****...kindda weird actually, everybody should've cared about the tone of everybody else.
Concerning your singer, like you said it's not about the engenneer, it's about the performance.
I myself am a sound technician, I've been doing it for 5 years or so and if there's something I've learned it's that the whole "we'll fix it later in the mix" is the worst thing you can do in the studio, you should always work a lot more on capturing an excellent performance than fixing stuff and mixing.
Did you mic the bass amp or was it just a DI?
It was a DI. Plugged into some little purple boxy gizmo, a preamp, I guess, which plugged into a Hartke amp, which was sitting on a small cab that made no noise, and the cord from the amp disappeared under the door, so yea, I *think* it was a DI. The guitars, however, were miced, and one was in a seperate room, so I may have not been DI. I really don't know, they had everything more or less ready to roll before we even got there, I didn't watch them set up.