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"Talent" and "being born with it"

Katoosie

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So here is something I have been thinking about.

I got talking to one guy some weeks ago about instruments and I have mentioned that I play the bass.

His response was something akin to 'i wish I was that talented'.

Being talented...

I don't think having talent is a thing. I think with practice, repetition, studying and playing you can be as skilled at music and playing and instrument as anyone else.

I was watching an interview with Jaco Pastorius and he said that he was born with "it", and you know, maybe he was... But then he said he spent hours upon hours just practicing and playing and studying.

I personally do not believe in talent, it's just work. I would say that I do not have any ability that I have had when I was born, instead I practice and put the hours in and eventually i get better.

The whole concept of being talented and someone telling me that I am talented is lowkey insulting because it implies that I havent worked hard for my ability to play, which I have.

Do you share similar views on this? Or do you believe something else?

Thanks!
 
People are not all the same. What we are born with is a set of cognitive abilities that can vary from person to person. You can't be born with the ability to play an instrument but you can be born with a stronger ability to process sound patterns. Just like some people can draw but not sculpt, or sculpt but not sing. Or drum but not pass calculus. Or play a fretless jazz bass like a virtuoso but not be able to pick out a decent outfit. Or be a virtuoso and not be able to relate to other people.
 
I know a guy who performs music at a level that an average person could never match, no matter how hard they try. (Alas, some other basic life skills can lag pretty badly - not sure I'd want to trade places with him.)
I also think a few people might qualify as having "no" musical talent.
IME most of us fall somewhere in between. And within the world of active performers, everyone has their own unique set of strengths & weaknesses.
 
So here is something I have been thinking about.

I got talking to one guy some weeks ago about instruments and I have mentioned that I play the bass.

His response was something akin to 'i wish I was that talented'.

Being talented...

I don't think having talent is a thing. I think with practice, repetition, studying and playing you can be as skilled at music and playing and instrument as anyone else.

I was watching an interview with Jaco Pastorius and he said that he was born with "it", and you know, maybe he was... But then he said he spent hours upon hours just practicing and playing and studying.

I personally do not believe in talent, it's just work. I would say that I do not have any ability that I have had when I was born, instead I practice and put the hours in and eventually i get better.

The whole concept of being talented and someone telling me that I am talented is lowkey insulting because it implies that I havent worked hard for my ability to play, which I have.

Do you share similar views on this? Or do you believe something else?

Thanks!
 
So here is something I have been thinking about.

I got talking to one guy some weeks ago about instruments and I have mentioned that I play the bass.

His response was something akin to 'i wish I was that talented'.

Being talented...

I don't think having talent is a thing. I think with practice, repetition, studying and playing you can be as skilled at music and playing and instrument as anyone else.

I was watching an interview with Jaco Pastorius and he said that he was born with "it", and you know, maybe he was... But then he said he spent hours upon hours just practicing and playing and studying.

I personally do not believe in talent, it's just work. I would say that I do not have any ability that I have had when I was born, instead I practice and put the hours in and eventually i get better.

The whole concept of being talented and someone telling me that I am talented is lowkey insulting because it implies that I havent worked hard for my ability to play, which I have.

Do you share similar views on this? Or do you believe something else?



Thanks!
—Totally disagree with you here. I used to teach bass and guitar on a part time basis. Some people just learn quickly, some have a natural sense of rhythm, and some have a great ear for pitch. A few have none of those attributes, and even less excel at all of them. But
So here is something I have been thinking about.

I got talking to one guy some weeks ago about instruments and I have mentioned that I play the bass.

His response was something akin to 'i wish I was that talented'.

Being talented...

I don't think having talent is a thing. I think with practice, repetition, studying and playing you can be as skilled at music and playing and instrument as anyone else.

I was watching an interview with Jaco Pastorius and he said that he was born with "it", and you know, maybe he was... But then he said he spent hours upon hours just practicing and playing and studying.

I personally do not believe in talent, it's just work. I would say that I do not have any ability that I have had when I was born, instead I practice and put the hours in and eventually i get better.

The whole concept of being talented and someone telling me that I am talented is lowkey insulting because it implies that I havent worked hard for my ability to play, which I have.

Do you share similar views on this? Or do you believe something else?

Thanks!

I totally disagree with you. Just like basketball or any other activity. No matter how hard a person works…not everyone can become a professional level basketball player. Some people are just born with an ability to more quickly master a musical instrument. But they still have to work hard to excel.
 
I knew a kid who had been playing guitar for 2 years and was sounded like he'd been headlining with major acts for 10 years. Amazing talent coupled with hard work. Much like Jaco, as he is described, in that way.
And I've known people who had the love and the desire and had not been "kissed by God" with a even shred of natural ability. They had to work 10 times as hard to sound 1/10 as good as an average player. With a lot of hard work they could get by.
But most of us fall somewhere in the middle. We have basic abilities in varying quantities but such that how hard we work will determine how well we play in relationship to our peers.
 
I always wanted to be the fastest guy on the track team, but no matter how hard I worked at it, that lazy guy that was gifted with more speed and athletic ability than me could always outrun me.
The more talent you have for something from the start, the better chance you have at really being good at it. The harder you work at refining that talent, the better you will be.
It can be frustrating when some people are good at something w/o even trying. Happens in sports, music…many things in life. But, that IS life…you just have to find your place and work hard at the things you decide are important to you.
 
I look at the "it" as natural ability. Yes, some folks have natural ability. And of them, some will develop their ability, and others won't. I wouldn't take offense to anyone who said you were talented though. I doubt they mean to suggest you don't have to work hard at it. They're probably just trying to give a compliment.

I agree with this, in the OP’s described situation I’d interpret the “talent” remark as sort of a shortcut to a compliment: well-intended but easy to toss OP’s way without having to process or understand much. In other words, like most compliments.

I think there are people who would like to be viewed as talented, and might feel slighted if someone seemed to imply that their success came at the cost of dogged hard work. Kind of like saying, “well, he/she tried really hard.”

I guess the ultimate flattery, no chance of offense, would be getting asked some knowledgeable questions with concise appreciative comments about one’s playing, which left no doubt that interested listening took place.

But then there’s the risk of “stalker/groupie alert!!!”

Maybe just ignore musicians? No, there’s issues there too...
 
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