My main bass is getting restored, since my Chadwick hybrid has to stand in as the only bass now, I had to address the end pin. Thanks @Earl I got this from Golihur:
https://gollihurmusic.com/carbon-fiber-replacement-endpin-assembly-for-upright-bass/
One wrap of masking tape and it fit perfectly. It is very stable, has a nicer sound and doesn't slip. Strangely, with the more stable end pin I was able to lower the action to get the sound I want.
I also had my Luthier, Thomas Helton, do some set up with the bridge. It made a huge difference. Charlie set it up to my measurements, but I think the bass has settled in. Now it plays like a real bass.
None of these issues were a problem on gigs, I could play right through them. They come up more when practicing at home. One strong piece of advice I would give any bass player: set your bass up so it fun to practice, if you are practicing enough, any set up will sound great on a gig.