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The "F" word...

Not true. I will qualify this with saying that it was of course a punk show, but it just so happened to be an all ages show. So the band was asked to remove some of the vulgarity. So when time comes for the f word spasm in the middle of one of my favorite songs, just a few hard bass drums hits and some bass grind. So disappointing, actually made the show a little lackluster. But I'm also one of the people with almost zero filter and no concern level of what people think of me, so YMMV.

Fair enough. But even you can admit you are very much in the minority, right? I'm not even saying that makes you "wrong". Like what you like. But there aren't enough of you to warrant requiring every front man to blurt F bombs during live shows.
 
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Swearing's a great art, and I've never encountered a better swearing language than Russian. And I could give a silver pin who may be offended by my presence. I've had quite enough of a lifetime being told to please others. That said, I do not swear as a habit but when I do I really mean it.

As to the OP, for me it's far more interesting (and useful) to see what a choice word triggers in yourself and examine that.
 
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Fair enough. But even you can admit you are very much in the minority, right? I'm not even saying that makes you "wrong". Like what you like. But there aren't enough of you to warrant requiring every front man to blurt F bombs during live shows.

I am more than likely in the minority, just wanted to point out there are occasions were remitting profanity does have a negative impact on a show. I will say using profanity in banter is a delicate line to walk, context being important and also inflection. I guess even to the most profane of us it's all about the tone and where it's placed. Hmmm reminds me of something else where it's important to use the right tone in the right place. Now if I could only remember where else this applies. I'm sure it will come to me. :laugh:
 
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The F bomb doesn't do anything to make anyone seem any more intelegent. Or grown up. In a rowdy bar, no one would probably care. Wedding or a Country Club, probably not such a good idea.
As for the work place, depends on where you work. I occasionally conduct instructional clinics for a large corporation ( For which I'm handsomely compensated.), and I hate to lose a really sweet gig, just because I decided to drop the F bomb. YMMV
 
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our lead singer has a tendency to drop the bomb at least once a gig...mind you it's always in a bar setting with no children present but I still find myself having a problem with it...
Am I being a bit too 'get off my lawn' about it..?
I feel like if we're getting paid to play they want music...if they wanted vulgarities they would have hired a stand up comic...

A bit , it's ok a couple times.