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This guy wants to sit in...
- Thread starter Brad Johnson
- Start date
Passinwind
I know nothing.
- Dec 3, 2003
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- Designer/Toaster Tech @ Passinwind Electronics
A zero string unlined fretless uke bass with no pickup, of course.
If *ANYONE* (BL or otherwise) ever told me to hand my gear over to someone else, I would simply smile and point in the direction of the nearest beach where they can go pound sand all day long.
Nobody touches my gear. No exceptions. Ever.
Nobody touches my gear. No exceptions. Ever.
We are a band. We spend hours rehearsing these songs. We carry our gear and set it up. We have a set list with quite a few original songs. It's OUR show. Why the **** do you think you are entitled to play one note on stage with us? We're the band, you're the audience. God has a plan and you're not in it.
On the other hand, I've gladly let a member of another band on the bill use my gear when they had some kind of breakdown and no quick solution. I've made some good friendships doing that. I've let a headliner use my bass amp just to keep the stage changes to a minimum. He didn't touch a single knob on my rig even after I said it was OK. There are respectful players out there. But that drunk dweeb who staggers out of the crowd? Ain't gonna happen.
On the other hand, I've gladly let a member of another band on the bill use my gear when they had some kind of breakdown and no quick solution. I've made some good friendships doing that. I've let a headliner use my bass amp just to keep the stage changes to a minimum. He didn't touch a single knob on my rig even after I said it was OK. There are respectful players out there. But that drunk dweeb who staggers out of the crowd? Ain't gonna happen.
The BL should have shut it down. A sit-in on a corporate gig is a little tacky. Also, @Brad Johnson was a sub. A sub shouldn’t be put on the spot like that. The question should have died with the BL.
Makes me wonder what the BL plays. "Hey OP, it's not mine, but let Mr. X play it."
Pfffffft.
Only once I accepted a guy sitting in on a gig using my bass for a couple of songs.
It felt like I handed over my wife for a roll in the hay.
Never again.
It felt like I handed over my wife for a roll in the hay.
Never again.
Generally people don't ask based on my burly demeanor and no way is a stranger going to play Taz, maybe one of my back up basses and only then for a song or two and after a contribution to my pocket and to the band kitty, fun don't come for free.
The band got booked for a wedding, with the understanding of all involved, that the groom would sit in and play bass for a song or two. Nobody in the band knew how well he could play, but his dad had lived in Nashville, was in some hall of fame, taught Carl Perkins how to play, yada yada.
So we all pile in the van and my bandmates all start in on how good this guy probably is for the next two hours, giving me a hard time in the process. We get to the venue and the first to meet us is the groom making sure he can play, use my bass and amp. He is very nice and proper about it all, I wasn't thinking at all about my equipment, mostly about how this wealthy guy is gonna wax me in front of my own band, on his wedding day.
It's a great wedding gig, the crowd is chanting his name, here's my bass, and there I go to have a beer with our sound man, who's is a bassist as well, to take my lumps. The number called was Good Hearted Woman, he hit four correct notes the whole song, we counted. The crowd goes wild, the band scowls, gives me the look, and plays another song. Its obvious the groom cannot play bass, the bandmates are getting upset and the crowd wants more. I let him have one more, mostly for the crowd, then took my bass back. The crowd moaned, but we played real good the rest of the night, and the ride home was fun.
So we all pile in the van and my bandmates all start in on how good this guy probably is for the next two hours, giving me a hard time in the process. We get to the venue and the first to meet us is the groom making sure he can play, use my bass and amp. He is very nice and proper about it all, I wasn't thinking at all about my equipment, mostly about how this wealthy guy is gonna wax me in front of my own band, on his wedding day.
It's a great wedding gig, the crowd is chanting his name, here's my bass, and there I go to have a beer with our sound man, who's is a bassist as well, to take my lumps. The number called was Good Hearted Woman, he hit four correct notes the whole song, we counted. The crowd goes wild, the band scowls, gives me the look, and plays another song. Its obvious the groom cannot play bass, the bandmates are getting upset and the crowd wants more. I let him have one more, mostly for the crowd, then took my bass back. The crowd moaned, but we played real good the rest of the night, and the ride home was fun.
Somebody said it earlier in the thread. Plus, I was sort of playing off of the recent number of "backup bass threads".
Nobody plays my basses, unless they are intending to buy it.
All this recent talk here about bringing back-up basses to gigs. It's clear that on some gigs a back-up BL is necessary.
rule #1 the players you want to sit in, NEVER ask.
"asking" to sit in pretty much brands you as an amateur.
at least that's pretty much the way it works around here
"asking" to sit in pretty much brands you as an amateur.
at least that's pretty much the way it works around here
I thought I was the only one who didn't let anyone play my basses, except my friend the guitarist. And then only because he lets me play his guitars and I know he's trustworthy.
