Good luck with the band, they can indeed be a "relationship", I think the ones that are the most fun to be in ( and conversely, possibly the worst)have this element, it's really nice when every leaves the ego at home!
I like John Taylor's playing immensely, "Hungry like the Wolf" needs the drums to be correct for the bass to work correctly - Taylor is cool because of what he sometimes doesn't play. With a two pick up 'Bird I like to back off the neck pick up just a little and dime the bridge - Perfect for Taylor's work, a little less bass and a bit of 'burp.