Bummer of a week that has culminated in a bummer of a day. My father-in-law has been ill and in the hospital for several weeks with one then then another. They never could make progress on the things that popped up. We met today and agreed nothing else can be done and it's best to move him to palliative care. Now we wait. He will be spared dialysis which he was headed for in the near future and for that I'm thankful. Unlike some in-law situations, we were great friends. He was like my second dad. We loved talking and killing time, talking his farm stories, NASCAR, cars and Bluegrass music to drive the ladies crazy. Never had an argument in 38 years and no regrets between us. Love your loved ones while you can. (Please, no need to comment. That's not at all why I mentioned this. We all go through tough times and hate to see anyone even online acquaintances go through a difficult patch.)