Thanks everyone for the compliments!
As for my "animated playing"... It helps me keep time and have decent stage presence. However I don't get the chance to see myself on video pretty often, and I have noticed some "moves" were a tad too accentuated. Does it show/seem too much for a pop show? I'm doing all that spontaneously so I'd like an opinion if I need to restrain it a bit.
I think you need to read my post better.

I was a hired gun here. There were certain expectations on what the band was going to sound like, and I'm told those were exceeded. I got paid, everyone's happy and we did not get booed off stage. What was my mistake, again?
BTW, I already have a gigging cover band and a recording project, with absolutely killer players, better than me on all levels:
Old album, old bassist, but you get the idea.