Ah. Very observant.
I did play music for more than 22 years. At many points, I even did it for a "living". However, I almost always had another job and/or ran a side business while I was doing it. At one point, I worked as the manager of a music store, where I also taught as many as 32 students, beginning at 6:00 p.m. when the store had closed and my paperwork was done. (I was single at the time so being at work from 9:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. wasn't a big deal.) I taught Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday and was the house bass player for a blues night on Tuesday and was co-owner of a private/corporate band on the weekends.
I could write a check for just about any car/truck I want to drive. But I am a cheap bastard so I drive a '99 Tahoe with about 217,000 miles on it. It is a little beat up and, yes, it has a broken door handle I refuse to pay my mechanic $125 to fix. It has a street value of about $1,000. My wife is a partner in a private medical practice and it is all I could do to talk her into buying a used TrailBlazer at $25,000. But I wanted us to have at least one vehicle that was reliable with kids around. I will drive my Tahoe 'til the wheels fall off. Then I will put them back on and drive it some more. When they fall off again, I will WELD them back on and drive it some more. I don't need or want a new vehicle.
I do not participate in Section 8. (You weren't paying attention to that post very well.) Not worth the hassle and (by all accounts locally) the constant damage to my properties. I do, however, own rental properties in neighborhoods where there are Section 8 units.
These days I play mostly fill-in gigs. And they have to be worth my time. I only play for good money or good friends.
And your last statement was not lost on me. You were calling me stupid. I get it. Funny how easy that is from behind a computer screen. Rest assured, I am not stupid, but tough enough.

I got tough by 1) making a lot of stupid mistakes along the way and 2) learning from them so I never made them again. Most people (yourself probably included) stop at step one.
I sold one of my businesses and went back to school full time starting last January. I have two children. I like long walks on the beach, pina colatas, and getting caught in the rain. I like other people's dogs. I have a barn, but no horses. I have a pool I rarely set foot in. I play softball on Thursday nights. I hate mustard. I need to lose about ten pounds to get back into my 32" waist jeans before the weather gets really cold. I sing the pure crap out of "Your Love" by The Outfiled. That alone gets me more gigs than I want to admit. My Keen sandals are wearing out a lot sooner than I expected they would. That makes me sad. I keep all my cutoff jeans shorts from the 80's in a big rubbermade container in the attic because I am positive they are going to make a comeback. And when they do, mine will be "vintage" and I will be a HUNDREDAIRE!
Anything else you wanna know there hotshot?