hi hrodbert696
Most musicians are horrible businessmen! (Jazz musicians are the worst!)
The compensation was supposed to be $500 for the band plus food and two drinks comped.
Rule number one: Always write it down and sign it!
A handshake is a contract (by law!) ,but without witness you have no chance to enforce it!
The singer explains that the owner forgot our comps so we have to pay it. $20 with a nominal tip.
Don't send the singer next time! (see below!)
I don't want to raise too much of a fuss, but doing this on our first gig in the place is putting the owner on my "do not trust" list.
Am I overreacting, have you guys seen similar, or what do y'all make of it?
No! you are not overreacting! A deal should be a deal!
The singer is the contact for the venue and I didn't want to cross channels and muck things up.
Singers know BS about gigs (sorry singers)
They don't know anything about drums (how much space you need)
They don't know how much power outlets you need on stage...etc.
They will book your 180 dB Heavy Metal Rockshow with 5000 KW lights for a wedding gig in a double garage!
a case of miscommunication most likely. I'd give them a chance to make it right.
Next time!
In every band I've played in for the past 30 years, I've insisted on having a simple service agreement that gets signed by the the venue before we even bring in any gear. There is a portion of the contract that specifically states whether or not food or drinks are provided.
This is it!
I have the same "agreement"! Also for over 30 years! I call it my "checklist"!
weekend-warrior bar bands in America
hrodbert696
Don't sell your band as weekend warriors! (it's time that you sell your band as adult musicians!)
Bar owners will always cheat when they can! It's part of the business!
The next time you want to play this gig,
show up with an "agreement" or checklist" (see above)!
Don't call it a contract

. Bar owners hate contracts!
Don't send your singer! Go yourself or send the beast (drummer?

just kidding)
Go through the checklist and don't mention what went wrong last time!!!
If you don't play there next week the bar owner won't remember your last gig and the non existent contract!
Start from scratch!
Write it down!
Start with the basics (lights, PA, power outlets on stage etc.)
Don't hesitate to tell him that you like his stage,light etc.
Once you get down to drinks and food
Ask for free drinks! All of them! And good catering!
This is a crucial point!
Going through the "checklist", the client has understood that you are not a teenage band!
"I once had a band that..." (blues brothers or teenage punkband) is no argument!
Push! Tell him that you come to play! (not to drink!)
And that you expect to be served good food!
Stop to sell yourselves as cheap! No adult experienced musician should do that!
As long as you stay cool and polite in your negotiacions you can get it!
Get your agreement signed! (and next time haggle even more: your price!!!)
greetings
Wise(b)ass