The best pots available are Honeywell, formerly Clarostat, formerly Allen-Bradley. They are pretty pricey, but you get what you pay for. The only drag is that you cannot solder to the back of their stainless-steel cases, so in order to establish a ground for the pot case, you need to use a ring lug around the bushing.
The "damped" feel is not an indication of how good a pot is, and the Honeywell pots feel ACCURATE, but not damped.
In the earliy days of Tapco, back in the 70's, when Greg Mackie was building mixers in his garage, he shot silicone damping fluid into the bushings of garden-variety CTS pots to give them a cushy feel. It was STILL a CTS pot, just felt better.
If you are looking for nice-feeling pots that are pretty good, Mighty Mite has them. I got some samples at NAMM, and they are pretty cool.
CTS? American? Don't let the "Chicago Telephone Supply" moniker fool you. CTS pots are made in Mexico. STILL North American, but sorry, NOT USA.
CTS, Alps, Alpha and Bourns are all on the same level. Bourns has just released a series of pots for guitars.
A good place to obtain pots from is Mouser Electronics. Also good, if you want to buy in quantity or custom configurations is State Electronics.