If you're in a dad (or grandpa) band playing the oldies for fun at the local wing joint, sure, wear whatever. But if you're in a band that's legitimately trying to build a following and make money (cover, original, or corporate), then it matters.
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View attachment 5481439 There are a lot of great things about TalkBass, but wow does it contain some of the most judgmental people on the planet. Don't wear sunglasses, don't wear hats, don't wear music related clothing, don't wear band t-shirts, don't wear YOUR band's t-shirts, don't wear shorts, don't wear sandals and on and on. It must be exhausting finding fault with everything.
View attachment 5481439 There are a lot of great things about TalkBass, but wow does it contain some of the most judgmental people on the planet. Don't wear sunglasses, don't wear hats, don't wear music related clothing, don't wear band t-shirts, don't wear YOUR band's t-shirts, don't wear shorts, don't wear sandals and on and on. It must be exhausting finding fault with everything.
That's why I always hit the stage buck naked!
I'm sure someone will now complain that you do/do not oil up first, and how doing the one they don't like is a deal breaker if you want to succeed.
If you're in a dad (or grandpa) band playing the oldies for fun at the local wing joint, sure, wear whatever. But if you're in a band that's legitimately trying to build a following and make money (cover, original, or corporate), then it matters.
It's all context. Most of the places I play, the typical corporate band dress would be way out of place unless it was worn as satire. This is the problem with TB rules of engagement. One size does not fit all.
Then it will turn into a fight of what brand of oil or type of oil one should use, and if you do dare use olive oil you are gonna fail in music.I'm sure someone will now complain that you do/do not oil up first, and how doing the one they don't like is a deal breaker if you want to succeed.
Then it will turn into a fight of what brand of oil or type of oil one should use, and if you do dare use olive oil you are gonna fail in music.
Then it will turn into a fight of what brand of oil or type of oil one should use, and if you do dare use olive oil you are gonna fail in music.
Do clothes with instrument brand logos, say Fender, also feel like they fit into that category?
View attachment 5481439 There are a lot of great things about TalkBass, but wow does it contain some of the most judgmental people on the planet. Don't wear sunglasses, don't wear hats, don't wear music related clothing, don't wear band t-shirts, don't wear YOUR band's t-shirts, don't wear shorts, don't wear sandals and on and on. It must be exhausting finding fault with everything.
Not so much. That's more like a biker wearing a Harley Davidson t-shirt or something.
LOL almost as exhausting as finding fault with people for finding fault.
Threads like this are a setup;
OP: "Let's talk about what works and what doesn't."
"OK. X works, Y doesn't."
"I agree X works, Y doesn't."
(Three days later) "X usually works, sometimes I like a little Y."
(A week after that) "Nah, Y doesn't work."
(then): "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU HORRIBLE PEOPLE WASTE YOUR TIME HATING Y!!! YOU'RE SO JUDGMENTAL!!! DON'T YOU HAVE ANYTHING BETTER TO DO THAT SIT AROUND ALL DAY LONG THINKING ABOUT NOTHING BUT HOW YOU HATE Y?? IT MUST BE EXHAUSTING!"
I mean, we could ignore the whole thread if it would make you feel better. Or the OP could just not post a thread in the first place. Maybe no one should post any threads to get people's experiences and opinions! That would be great.
Or, just maybe, if someone asks, we can go ahead and say what we think.
Hmm.
There's a big difference between someone saying "this is the music we play, where we play and what works for us" vs. "anyone who wears short on stage is a hack that brings down live music everywhere".
Not saying that has been said in this thread, but I've read it often enough on TB to know it happens. It's just one example of how many can't see past the bubble of their own musical world. It's more telling on them than the people they criticize.
That's like one of those unofficial dad band rules. You must wear a Fender shirt while you're playing at the wing hut.100%. Wearing music-themed clothes or t-shirts from a musical instrument company is a level worse than wearing your own band's shirt.
Threads like this are a setup;
OP: "Let's talk about what works and what doesn't."
"OK. X works, Y doesn't."
"I agree X works, Y doesn't."
(Three days later) "X usually works, sometimes I like a little Y."
(A week after that) "Nah, Y doesn't work."
(then): "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU HORRIBLE PEOPLE WASTE YOUR TIME HATING Y!!! YOU'RE SO JUDGMENTAL!!! DON'T YOU HAVE ANYTHING BETTER TO DO THAT SIT AROUND ALL DAY LONG THINKING ABOUT NOTHING BUT HOW YOU HATE Y?? IT MUST BE EXHAUSTING!"
I mean, we could ignore the whole thread if it would make you feel better. Or the OP could just not post a thread in the first place. Maybe no one should post any threads to get people's experiences and opinions! That would be great.
Or, just maybe, if someone asks, we can go ahead and say what we think.
Hmm.
Well, a detailed post and of course it's the order things often take, but I would argue that the point is there are way too many people who think that their way is the ONLY way. It's not so much about giving opinions, but in insisting that the other person's opinion is wrong. Taking something that is subjective and trying to make it factual. If people would stick to "here's why I do it" as opposed to "here's why my way is right and yours is wrong", than that would break the cycle, so to speak.
IMO, YMMV, etc.
So, for instance, if a person were to nuance their opinion of what they find a bad look for a performer by saying "This is a pet peeve of mine," thus acknowledging the subjectivity of their judgement?