In addition to practice, recording (!!!), and playing in several rock bands of various genres, a couple of experiences stand out.
The first was playing with a truly creative, amazing drummer in an original rock band. She sometimes took an impressionistic approach, and would improvise for several bars. It could sound like she was leaving the groove. But she wasn't. She would always come out of it and land squarely on the one--so I HAD to be there. She forced me to develop my internal timing more than any other drummer. Playing with her made me a better musician, and she had the same effect on the guitarist. (She has since become an elite percussionist in Middle Eastern music. April Centrone - NY ARABIC ORCHESTRA)
Second was playing a couple of musical theater shows. One of them forced me to dramatically improve my (minimal) reading chops, which in itself helped my timing. This show also didn't involve a leader/conductor, so we had to be spot on. It required serious timing discipline, and afterwards my rock band felt like it was moving in slow motion.
The first was playing with a truly creative, amazing drummer in an original rock band. She sometimes took an impressionistic approach, and would improvise for several bars. It could sound like she was leaving the groove. But she wasn't. She would always come out of it and land squarely on the one--so I HAD to be there. She forced me to develop my internal timing more than any other drummer. Playing with her made me a better musician, and she had the same effect on the guitarist. (She has since become an elite percussionist in Middle Eastern music. April Centrone - NY ARABIC ORCHESTRA)
Second was playing a couple of musical theater shows. One of them forced me to dramatically improve my (minimal) reading chops, which in itself helped my timing. This show also didn't involve a leader/conductor, so we had to be spot on. It required serious timing discipline, and afterwards my rock band felt like it was moving in slow motion.