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What the...? (girl content)
- Thread starter GeneralElectric
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Yes, there are 2 distinct categories these days for us youngins (I hear some of the older men these days know the score as well)
1) Girls you'd hook up with
2) Girls you'd WANT to hook up with
One night stands abound in category 1. Girlfriends come from category 2.
1) Girls you'd hook up with
2) Girls you'd WANT to hook up with
One night stands abound in category 1. Girlfriends come from category 2.
I only have two rules. No fatties and no uglies.
I've been known to follow rule #3 "there are no rules" when drunk.
EDIT: You still need to borrow a cane? I got the sea lion one still
and the fact that I just got a bass neck in the mail means I have a box for it.Ultimately you're going to have to do what you feel is right. But if it were me in your shoes...
I think Carmen might have issues. I really don't like the idea of hooking up with or dating a girl who still misses her ex. I don't want to play second fiddle to another guy.
Now, although you seemed to indicate that you like Carmen more, Michelle seems to be the all around nicer girl. She's the one you spend all your time hanging out with, right? Someone you can get along with, whose company you enjoy, is worth a lot more than a girl you think is a little hotter. And just because you're friends, doesn't mean you can't be her boyfriend.
If you're really smooth, there is no 'friend zone.' I'd be willing to bet that Maki has 'jumped ladders' or 'crossed the friend zone' a few times before
For many guys it is difficult, but I don't believe it is impossible. My thought is that whether you believe in the ladder theory or not, you can be a girl's best friend while also being on the 'guys she'd hook up with' ladder/group.
I think Carmen might have issues. I really don't like the idea of hooking up with or dating a girl who still misses her ex. I don't want to play second fiddle to another guy.
Now, although you seemed to indicate that you like Carmen more, Michelle seems to be the all around nicer girl. She's the one you spend all your time hanging out with, right? Someone you can get along with, whose company you enjoy, is worth a lot more than a girl you think is a little hotter. And just because you're friends, doesn't mean you can't be her boyfriend.
If you're really smooth, there is no 'friend zone.' I'd be willing to bet that Maki has 'jumped ladders' or 'crossed the friend zone' a few times before
For many guys it is difficult, but I don't believe it is impossible. My thought is that whether you believe in the ladder theory or not, you can be a girl's best friend while also being on the 'guys she'd hook up with' ladder/group.
Call Michelle out on her game..."Look, I think you're hot as hell, and your cleavage-flashing and photo-sending is only helping to support my opinion. If you want us to be "just friends", then cut that **** out. If you want to go have a great time together, let's stop wasting time and get to it." You'll either call her bluff or get some action. Time for you to take control of the situation.
I only have two rules. No fatties and no uglies.
I've been known to follow rule #3 "there are no rules" when drunk.
EDIT: You still need to borrow a cane? I got the sea lion one still
Yes. I'll PM you addy. I'll pay for shipping.
Just tell her that the other chick thinks your junk is too big for her. Ask her what she thinks whilst you drop trou. If she get's down...there you have it. If she doesn't....tell her to GTFO!
Always worked for me. No go get em!
Always worked for me. No go get em!
Lawrence, what would you do if you had a million dollars?
I'll tell you what I'd do, man...
ha ha! That's the best! Man that is funny stuff!
I shall pass on a great piece of advice I got from my guitar tech "Women, can't live with them, can't murder them, the only way you can find less irritation? Go gay"
1st girl seems to be using you for sex once in awhile while she's living her "real" life.
2nd girl thinks of you as "girlfriend" type friend and teases you with all the stuff she does. IMO, neither see you as "boyfriend" material.
IME, state your intentions with each one and move on if they're not on the same page as you. You'll have tons of free time once you get past them.
2nd girl thinks of you as "girlfriend" type friend and teases you with all the stuff she does. IMO, neither see you as "boyfriend" material.
IME, state your intentions with each one and move on if they're not on the same page as you. You'll have tons of free time once you get past them.
I'd skip 'Carmen'. If she still needs to put her ex before you and has hang ups there, not a good start.
The only thing I'd be wondering about, is if Carmen is going around telling everyone she likes you, and her good friend Michelle is sending you photos and flirting, if you and Michelle get together there could be some conflict between Michelle and Carmen, which could turn bad for you. Especially if you've already slept with Carmen.
The only thing I'd be wondering about, is if Carmen is going around telling everyone she likes you, and her good friend Michelle is sending you photos and flirting, if you and Michelle get together there could be some conflict between Michelle and Carmen, which could turn bad for you. Especially if you've already slept with Carmen.
