pbd
Commercial User
I use Wedgie 5.0 mm medium and 3.1 mm hard rubber picks. I like how they give you the louder sound that a pick gives you but it still sounds like you are playing with your fingers.
The best suggestions is the one that most everyone else has given you. Got to the guitar shop and get several different types. That's what I did to find the kind I like. If you're lucky they will even have some demo picks that they will give you to try for free.
I second or third this motion, go grab a handful and try them out. Keep in mind you may change your mind about what feels good as get used to playing with one. All else fails, use your fingers! lol
Todd