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What was the most time you left playing for?

Oddly enough, it was my miserable excuse of an ex was what inspired some of my best playing....

15 years.

Didn't play a single note or even touch my bass between 1996-2011. Contributing factors - work, graduate school, having children, many moves, the dissolving of my main band in the early 90s and resulting funk from that, not having any friends that played music in the city I lived, and, regrettably, the presence of a miserable and incredibly nasty now-ex-wife all combined to keep me from playing. I have my wonderful current wife to thank for getting me back into this hobby, by encouraging me to go to open stages and jams, reconnect with music friends, and find bands to get back into among other things. I'm now finally back to playing originals again (yay!) in my third band since restarting, and having an absolute blast. I can't see myself ever putting down the bass again.
 
One thing I noticed immediately when I auditioned for my current band-after really just a few months back playing-is that I was far more able to follow the rest of the band than I'd ever been before, even at the end of that first 12 years. I have no idea why that is, whether it was necessity or just being older, or something else entirely. Whatever it was, it sure made the job easier!
 
After college I put it down and basically didn't look back. Barely touched musical instruments for 33 years. I returned with a vengeance less than three years ago. I can tell you: Music is HARD. Don't do what I did.
 
Stopped playing in bands about 94 when I realized I wouldn't make it as a pro. Still kept my hand in but knew my playing wouldn't improve much. Got fed up and stopped playing about 5 years ago. Went through a rough patch and then 2 years ago I got my bass out and decided to re-learn how to play. Joined a cover band a few months looking to start gigging soon. Can't wait to play live again. It's in the blood I guess.
 
Greetings from the North,

I really didn't tally it up but looking back it was for 14 years. A band I was in was about to be signed and then the 2 guitards turfed me out. It was kind of painful at the time because I had started that band. Needless to say they replaced me with a jazz guy with amazing chops but it killed the vibe. The label that was going to sign them changed their mind because they didn't like the new sound. I swore I'd never play again. Sold off all of my gear except for my ole TBird which I mounted on the wall above the fireplace like an old shotgun. And then one day some friends begged me to do a benefit Christmas show and I was hooked in again lol. Now I'm loving writing & playing & recording in my originals band and also having fun playing in a cover band with friends from work. Yup music keeps you young lol. Never say never!

Happy Times,

Rezdog
 
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The longest time in-between gigs for me was a little over 3 years, but I was still playing, just not with anyone.

However, I went through a 7 month period where I thought I was done for good. In the last few months of 1999, I was totally burnt out on the band, the gigs, trying to score record deals, the music, the whole thing. I realized that it wasn’t fun for me anymore, and throw in the fact that I had a general feeling of burnt out with my life as it was. Working two jobs, band pretty much anytime I wasn’t working. I needed a break. So, I quit the band, sold everything except for two basses and a combo (just in case) and took off. I went to Central America for a month with a girlfriend, then a couple of months later went to Hungary to visit that same girlfriend and stayed there for a month as well. When I got back, I was asked by the band I had quit a few months before if I was interested in doing a festival in a few months? Yeah, I couldn’t pass it up, and found that I missed playing.
 
I quit playing for about 5 years when I was 17. I'd been playing since I was 14 but I ended things with the band I was in because of the arrogance of the guitarist.

Turns out that in that age group he was the best guitarist I could find as far as actually being good at the instrument. Got frustrated with the talentless guitarists who had no idea how to play, just how to play the riff for Smoke on the Water. So I hung it up. I live to perform so not being able to killed it for me.

Got asked to play about a year ago with a Christian hard rock band. Picked it back up and I'm better now than I was back then. Not the best guitarist but he knows he's not fantastic so there's no arrogance.

Wouldn't quit playing now for the whole world.
 
Almost 10 years. Before my break I was gigging almost every weekend with 3 different groups. Two ended their run amicably but my main band blew up in dramatic soap opera fashion (shouting matches at sound check in front of fans, eye daggers during guitar solos, etc). When that ended i told my girlfriend (now wife and mother of my two kids) that I'm taking a few months off. Almost ten years pass by. Got married, got a mortgage, my career starts to take off and of course the two kids which are everything to me and I seem to be fine not playing. Then my mom passes away suddenly and I desperately need something to help me get my head on straight. Hello bass guitar just waiting for me to pick you up again. A year a few months later I owe this instrument more than you can ever imagine and I've rediscovered myself as a person and musician. Loving every minute of it.
 
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Hard to say...

I got pushed into playing bass in HS around 1965 and loved it. I played a few years then a bandmate heard me playing guitar and pushed me into playing guitar again. I switched back and forth for a few years, maybe until 1975 when I went full time on guitar.

So between mid 70s until the early 90s is didn't even own a bass, but I played pedal bass while playing guitar which was a very cool addition to a solo guitarist. I picked up a set of pedals from a Crumar organ, a mini Moog and wired the pedals to the Moog.

When musicians asked me how I managed to play bass and guitar at the same time I explained I used to be a bass player. I got so many offers to play bass, and none to play guitar, that I bought a bass and started the switching back and forth thing again.

Today I play guitar in a classic rock band, and in an acoustic duo, and bass in another classic rock band.

Long answer to a simple question. Basically, I don't really know a long time.
 
Six years ('92 - '98)
Started playing bass when I was 13 and was full-bore for 15 years, making my living or in some years supplementing my income by playing.
Finally got fed up with lousy gigs/pay and band drama and hung up my spurs. I continued to noodle about on my own and attend the rare jam session from time to time but had no interest in being "back in it".
Then in '98 a friend of mine convinced me to start running PA for a local band that he had friends in. I soon came to the realization that I couldn't be content in a support role, I needed to be on stage. I've been back in hot-n-heavy ever since.
 

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