When I typed that, my thought was:
I got that.
I'm just darker.
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When I typed that, my thought was:
And that’s what’s sad — it’s that instant dopamine trigger from whatever is on their device that super-cedes what’s happening in the physical world in front of them. It’s real and addictive. Opiate of the masses…
Hey, it was a kids movie written by Dr. SeussI'll say!
Hey, it was a kids movie written by Dr. Seuss
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Try playing in an originals band - at least you're getting paid.I've been gigging for about 30 years. I cut my teeth as a super young guy in an oldies band playing doo wop and Motown to upstate NY audiences who danced and clapped and smoked their butts off.
While Boston audiences were more reserved in the oughties and tens, still lots of clapping and dancing.
I've been living in North Carolina for over 8 years. Metro Charlotte. Banking, not that different from Boston.
Lately I've noticed that audiences are going stepford. No clapping. No interaction. No dancing. About half the gigs I'm at are at some level "Wallpaper Gigs"...where the band might as well be a potted plant designed for ambiance.
We are all mostly top players in our 40s and 50s. We play a bit of everything in order to please a wide selection of people from all demographics -rock, pop, disco, country, R&B.
We're not ugly. Sure the singer could use to lose 30 lbs but he wears his soda belly well.
Something happened to society between 1993 and 2023. In 1993 everyone would at least golf clap after a song ended. It's polite.
Last night my trio was asked to play a benefit for leukemia. Someones daughter had actually survived and they were doing a fundraiser. We were all but ignored, they didn't offer us any of the communal food...the family of the girl didn't acknowledge us.
A paid wallpaper gig is one thing. I get a Benjamin to be ignored.
A wallpaper benefit gig is actually unacceptable. I've been honing my singing and playing skills for 40 years! We donated our time, skills, and the use of $10,000 in gear to a good cause.
I'm disgusted. I'm sure I'm just an old man yelling at clouds- but I think I'm done playing benefits unless there's concessions made for the band (FOOD FOOD FOOD!).
I worked half a day at my day job and lost $$$ to be a hothouse flower centerpiece?
I can't wait to make a hundy this Saturday getting ignored. It's so much better than volunteering for it...
My trio has at least 3 albums worth of originals. We mix them in sparingly. Funny story...about 5 years ago we were still a 50/50 band with a "cool name" and pushed as hard as we could to promote ourselves as an original act. We got booked at The Milestone in dirty west end Charlotte which has the honor of having hosted Nirvana back in the day.Try playing in an originals band - at least you're getting paid.
You're a broI'll buy you a sandwich and a drink at your next charity event.
Oh, I have no problem with it either. Just reinforcing the previously mentioned idea that it's not just the "kids" who "watch" concerts through their cell phones.I don't mind that.
That's how we get to see stuff on Youtube.
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