Hi,
I'll share my experience. Take from it what you will.
I've been in all kinds of bands, bands with one good singer and bands with three or four good singers. I've been in bands with a "front" person and bands where there really was no single "front" person and everyone took their turn in the spotlight.
I'm currently in a band with three very good singers, one is the front person, and three that are just OK. The front person does the majority of the songs during the night. I'll usually sing two songs a set as will the keyboard player. In addition we both do a few duets with the "front" person singer-babe throughout the night. The other guys will sing one or two songs a night and help with the harmonies. It's her band, she books it, she fronts it (and she's great at it), that's the way it is. It's not a total dictatorship, we all have input, for the most part the band plays to its strengths, but we all realize that this is Kelly's project and we help her serve her audience.
In a previous band, that I worked with for 20 years, there were three or four and sometimes five good singers (we used to have a singer-babe, the drummer's wife) and no egos. We would share the load and either take turns, just go around in a circle (singer-babe, me, the keyboard/steel player, then the drummer, then the guitar player, repeat) or we would do little mini-sets within a set, sing two or three songs each then pass it to the next vocalist.
Each member of the band needs to serve the ensemble, be a team player, and remember why you're there -- to entertain and perform for the audience. They don't care who sings what. They just want to dance, have fun, listen to some good music, and enjoy time with their friends, or pick up chicks, or whatever.
I think your drummer is a little out of line. You should all have a talk.
Thank you for your indulgence,
BassCliff
Great post. Thank you.
