...when exactly does it hit you? our singer has quit the band. we've always gotten along great, but lately, she has not been into it as much as we have (surfing the internet during rehearsal was a good indicator). so i was getting a bit miffed, and when she made her announcement, my reaction was "ok, cool. what's the next step?" didn't hit me until the next day when we were auditioning singers. got kinda sad to hear the songs in a different (not bad) way and knowing that this phase of our music was over. how do/did you react? and how does/did it change with time?