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Where should I move to?

Congratulations @smeet !
We are in the process of selling our house in Florida (and preparing for the Hurricane). We are going to a cabin in Western NC for 6 months as we figure out our next move. Asheville was high on our list of next destinations. We will be an hour away so we will be going over occasionally.

I work remotely and my wife can work in any decent sized town. We have school age kids so schools are about the only additional consideration but we are generally looking for the same type of place for ourselves.

I added Knoxville and Chattanooga to our list of places to go check out.
 
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Idaho apparently had a whole bunch of billionaires investing in property there over the last year or two. So now everything there is priced ridiculously high.

We are still considering everything, but we invested so much time, money, and mental energy figuring out that Asheville was the perfect place for us. Now we have to start over I guess. Philly/Jersey looks possible. Oregon sounds nice but the rain and fires. The South in general is beautiful but the heat and humidity. The midwest is possible but I grew up in Chicago and I am a hunka hunka burning hate for the weather (crappy hot summer, crappy cold winter, 2 nice weeks in fall and spring) and the flat featureless endless cornfields.

Why is this so hard? Aren't there any nice places that are affordable and I won't be maimed or killed by hurricane/earthquake/flood/fire/neighbors/toxic waste? It seems like you used to be able to just find a town and live there and it was nice. Maybe I'm just old and it was always this way.
I live in southern Oregon. As far as the rain goes it's usually from October through April. The weather is milder here than it is up north. Yep there are fires some years are worse than others this year wasn't too bad around here. No sales tax here. Good luck I hope you find a great place
 
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I live in Austin. I like HOT so I don't mind the weather. It doesn't rain much. We usually have great shoulder seasons. It's a guitar town. People are moving here too rapidly and the city is losing a lot of what makes people want to move here. DOT is preparing a full redo of I35 through town and that is going to make driving a holy terror for 10 years. Best BBQ on earth, best TexMex on earth, best tacos, can't grow tomatoes. No state or city income tax. Stupid high property taxes.
 
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I live in one of the places that people were/are migrating to - Grand Junction, Colorado, on the Western Slope. Beautiful area, pretty good music scene but nothing like some of the bigger regions mentioned above. Biggest problem here is like so many places that end up on the "best places" list, home prices have gotten really high. Housing has doubled or tripled in the last 10 yrs, but for people coming from high housing cost areas less of a problem (and part of the reason for increases).
 
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Everyone I know who has visited has noted that prices for everything were very high. I am not sure low taxes can balance out housing/food/fuel costs.
Joining in on the Switzerland thread, since it's on my personal list. So I have to learn Italian, French or German to live there permanently (@djmay)?

I'm not sure I'd factor in fuel costs, as Swiss public transportation is phenomenal.

We visited last year, and it was the trip of a lifetime. I'm not sure where I'd settle, but based on the places we visited...Appenzell? Montreux?
 
I grew up in Illinois and went camping with the boy scouts in Wisconsin and Michigan. In the dead of winter. One time we slept under canoes on the coldest day of the century. That was fun I guess.

Maybe winters are "better" now.

Please tell me about the music scene. What genres of music? Is it easy to get into bands, to get paid gigs, to attract an audience? Los Angeles has none of those things. Well, you can get into a Craigslist "band", and if you play Clapton and Van Morrison you might get some dive bar gigs.
I live in a city that's not for from Detroit so there's music of all sorts all over the place. During the summer lots of parks have bands play on alternating nights. If you're a good bass player there are lots of opportunities. It's harder for guitar players but most bass players I know are in more than one band.
 
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North Carolina is beautiful. I did Fort Bragg in 87'.

As someone who was born and raised in Los Angeles, I would suggest visiting the places you are considering a few times during different times of the year. Mainly if are considering a significant change from LA. Also, please don't make the place you find like the place you left. Many of the affordable areas of the country are getting gentrified and that hurts the local economy in terrible ways.
We did all the resarch in the world, and settled on Asheville, which then got flattened. I'm not sure what I could do either accidentally or on purpose to make Asheville or any other place like LA. I just live, eat, play music, and play with the dogs.

You can still go to Asheville, and help rebuild for the first little bit you are there. Based on some articles I read online, there is real concern that the art/music scene will take a hit as some folks move away for good. What a neat opportunity to step in to fill a void and help return a community to what it once was.
That is something I have thought about. But I'm getting up there and I don't know how many gigging years I have left. I've had to live with the dearth of decent gigs in LA for years, I'm hoping to go to a place where musicians can thrive. Do you have any feeling for how the art/music scene might be post-hurricane? I'd love to help rebuild, but I also want to play for a few years before I'm too old to do it.


We have looked at Portland in the past, and we're thinking about it again. Does anybody know how the music (gigging) scene is there?
 
I can't think of many places in the U.S. that have a really good gigging culture and the places that do are very competitive, NYC, Austin, Nashville. I can vouch for Brasilia, Brazil which has a vibrant arts scene, is a decent size city in the high plains - think Denver - and the coldest temperature is 52 degrees F. It was a planned and designed city and people either love that or hate it, and by our standards, it's very inexpensive to live.

The other place that I hear has a good jazz scene is Tokyo but I haven't experienced it first hand.

That said, much of what you're looking for could be found in Santa Barbara, Santa Cruz, or Napa.
 
Somewhere near Seattle could be ideal for you. There are less expensive areas outside of the metro area and, depending on the neighborhood, it can be quite walkable. It ticks pretty much all of your boxes, but it can be VERY expensive to live in Seattle proper. Traffic can absolutely suck sometimes, but that's par for the course with any metro area these days.
Just wanted to say that I was in Seattle on a work trip about a month ago and fell in love with the area. It’s breathtakingly beautiful up there. Also happened to stumble across Jimi Hendrix’s grave after speaking with a bartender and lamenting the fact that me trying to see A Sound Garden just wasn’t going to happen due to timing. Turns out Hendrix was just 5 minutes down the road lol. The folks up there were all super nice and agreeable. Maybe I got lucky, but people seemed happier there.
 
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Just wanted to say that I was in Seattle on a work trip about a month ago and fell in love with the area. It’s breathtakingly beautiful up there. Also happened to stumble across Jimi Hendrix’s grave after speaking with a bartender and lamenting the fact that me trying to see A Sound Garden just wasn’t going to happen due to timing. Turns out Hendrix was just 5 minutes down the road lol. The folks up there were all super nice and agreeable. Maybe I got lucky, but people seemed happier there.
I can't really imagine living anywhere else right now, but when my son is out on his own I will likely move north, possibly to the far north east coast. When I'm ready to get back to the country. Wherever it is, it will be north and coastal. I need saltwater nearby.
 
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If a vibrant music scene is among your top priorities, then the greater Chicagoland area is an excellent choice. While we aren't known for being at the top of any one, particular music genre, this area is overflowing with talented musicians and thriving venues for all music genres.

We have everything here, in abundance. Pop, hip hop, dance, rock, punk, blues, country, jazz, metal, folk, classical, electronic, ballroom dance, experimental, . . . . . . you get the idea.

Basically, if it exists somewhere in the world, then there's at least one or two bands playing it here.

But more than that, there's enough demand for local musical talent that you can actually get paid to play music here. Just scour the available resources for fellow musicians interested in the type of music you like, form a band, and start playing gigs. You won't get rich doing it (unless you're really good at it) but you can earn enough through playing the area circuit to make it worthwhile.

Classic rock cover bands, for example, are everywhere. You can put one together very easily and start booking gigs with little effort. If you have any talent at all, starting pay is about $400 total per show. That's $100 per person for a four piece band.

Sure, that's peanuts, but it's a lot better than 90% of any other places where you might be living.

Moreso, there's plenty of room for advancement. Pay your dues for a few years, develop a following on social media, and venues will offer more. I've been in a few bands, and have friends who are in bands that have been around for awhile that make $500 - $1,000 a night. And I'm talking about part time "dad" bands.

If you step up to a full time gigging band, then you can actually make a living at it.

The "Illinois Entertainer" is a free monthly music magazine that highlights the musical scene in the Chicagoland area. In print and online. Check it out:


So, that's the music scene. What about everything else?


Weather: We have the four traditional seasons here, divided evenly into three months each. Summers are typically in the mid 80s during the day, with heat waves in the 90s being common. Winter days can vary a lot, but usually ranging around the teens and 20s, with occasional cold snaps around 0⁰F, although it's common to have temps in the 30s and 40s, even in January. We get some snow, but not really that much.

Precipitation is reliable year round. We don't have rainy seasons or dry seasons. Just mostly sunny days, with one or two rain (or snow) showers every week or so, throughout the year.

Scenery: Meh.

There's not much natural beauty to look at here. Mostly flattish, with rolling hills and a few bluffs, here and there. Some rock formations are to be found along our abundant rivers and creeks. But aside from that, you're looking at vast fields of corn, soybeans, and cows.

Having said that, our architecture is world class. I won't go into detail here, but if you search the interwebz, you'll see what I mean.

While there's not much natural beauty to see here, we do have access to some in our neighbor to the north, Wisconsin. Hop on interstate 94, drive a few hours and you're in "God's country". Natural lakes and streams are abundant, and Wisconsin caters to Illinois tourists and vacationers in the summer (and year round).

Food: The greater Chicagoland area is both a national (and international) crossroads of ethnic diversity, and it's reflected in our cuisine. Again, I won't go into detail here, but an online search will describe the richness of choice we have for food from all ethnicities. The best part is that much of it is "mom and pop" restaurants that are very affordable for ordinary folks.

Health care: Is state of the art and very accessible. Hospitals and clinics are abundant. Doctors in all fields and specialties can be found within a 30 minute drive from wherever you are in the area. Chicago itself has world class medical facilities.

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If the above seems enticing to you, feel free to PM me for details.

If there was one specific place I'd recommend it would be DeKalb, Illinois. It's a small city of about 40,000 pop., located 65 miles west of Chicago.


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Part of downtown DeKalb - showing everal music venues


It's home to Northern Illinois University, which has an excellent music program that attracts aspiring musicians of all genres. For that reason, there are many local venues that host a wide variety of talented bands and artists. As a bonus, there are several independent music shops that have been in business long enough to become iconic. They're great places to buy, sell, and service musical instruments, as well as serve as convenient contact hubs for musicians.


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NIU campus

I also like DeKalb for its strategic location. It's right on the 88 expressway that gets you straight to downtown Chicago in less than a hour, and you're within 45 minutes of the suburbs. Yet, it's far enough away from the urban sprawl that the cost of living is very much lower. The cost to own or rent a home is affordable, as is the cost of goods and services.

DeKalb is also 40 miles southeast of the city of Rockford (pop 300,000) which itself has an abundance of quality music, art, and culture.

If you live in DeKalb, you have easy access to dozens of well attended summer music festivals in the immediate area, showcasing a variety of bands, from local talent to world famous artists and groups.

Hope this helps.
Great suggestion! But I grew up there, and while the music scene was great, I hated the weather and the landscape and I swore I’d never go back. Maybe I’m being irrational but I just can’t go back.
 
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Joining in on the Switzerland thread, since it's on my personal list. So I have to learn Italian, French or German to live there permanently (@djmay)?

I'm not sure I'd factor in fuel costs, as Swiss public transportation is phenomenal.

We visited last year, and it was the trip of a lifetime. I'm not sure where I'd settle, but based on the places we visited...Appenzell? Montreux?
That is correct about learning a language for permanent residency. Different kantons (states) have different languages. I live in Kanton Zürich, which is German. Kanton Ticino is Italian.

Regarding transportation, I do not own a car. When I need one, I rent. Public transportation is the best in the world.

I also periodically visit Appenzell and Montreux. See my website, djessemay.com.
 
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