Over the past year I had the chance to quit the day job and pursue music full-time.
My day job is as a software tester, and I play bass in several local original bands. After a few years of networking, I finally got my "big break" and landed a gig working for a pop/rock band on a major label. Modest weekly salary (only when touring), per diem, cheap shared hotel room, paid rehearsals. I was able to take several leave of absence's from the day job, and was grateful for the awesome experiences I had touring. I did several 4-6 week tours with this band, playing all over the country, opening for an alternative pop/rock star with a medium level of fame.
After a couple of tours, the day job couldn't afford me any more time off, and I was faced with a tough decision. In the end I chose the day job, realizing that my pursuit of music doesn't have to include working for this particular band. I really wanted to pursue my own music, and also don't want to depend on staying on the road to make a living - it's a blast, but not for me. Though working as a hired sideman can be great, you are there to play parts as written, with a certain bass tone, have a certain look, etc. The tour salary wasn't much, but almost enough for a single guy living cheaply to get by - provided you tour a lot, and have a very flexible gig to fill in the gaps.
After having a full experience with this band, I was honestly feeling a little restless, and felt I was giving up too much by losing the day job, so I stuck with it.
I don't feel that I gave up my dream of playing music, but instead redefined it!
jive1 said:
Music can be a part-time activity, but it doesn't mean it's not a professional one. I still file my income, I part-take in the legalities of business, I have to manage and work with others, I have goals to meet, tasks to organize, things to create and develop, etc. In my experiences, I have found plenty of part-timers that were much more professional than their "full-time" counterparts.
This is where I'm trying to get to as well! Though currently I'm having a hard time finding others with this mindset - I'm getting possible auditions, but with bands that are strictly a hobby, or that really want to "make it". Neither of which are bad, but I'm looking for something in the middle!