Here's the scenario:
Every Jan we give our booking agent a list of "Black out dates" for the entire year. And she is told, if it's not blacked out...book it. (yes, we play a lot for a local bar band). Anyway, in my real job, we have until Jan 31 to file for vacation time, which is given, of course, by seniority. This year, I blacked out 2 weeks for family vacation. And low and behold, I was forced to move my vacation up 1 week because someone high in Seniority wanted it off. Yep, you guessed it...our booking agent booked a gig, THEN I found out my vacation got moved. Hmmmm, OK, it was my "fault", I accept that. So, I found a replacement. Someone who we all have played with and know to be a top notch player. Well, I got an a$$ chewing from the band leader. He claims HE should be the one responsible for finding a replacement. No harm, no foul. Most likely, the BL would have called the same guy as I called. I think he's just trying to feed his ego. lol But, I'm just wondering how everyone else would handle it.
By the way, we have never (to date anyway) canceled a gig. 2 years ago, I played a gig the day before and 5 days after having back surgery. Granted, I sat there like a bump on a log and played bass, but the show still went on. Although, due to the Oxycontin, I don't remember too much of it. They say I did just fine! lol