My guess is that a lot of drummers haven't had exposure to music theory. They know how to hit the drums, but they're not familiar with the nuances of how music works. Same could be said about a lot of guitar players too.![]()
I totally agree.
I find that there are essentially 3 types of players out there: The beginner, the musician, and the guy (or gal) that owns an instrument.
The beginner is just that, somebody just starting out and learning about the instrument. It's too early in their career to see how they're gonna turn out so its our responsibilities as more experienced players to guide them into the "musician" direction.
The musician is the ideal that we're looking for: good player that's physically comfortable with their instruments, has enough knowledge and theory behind them that when you say its a 1-4-5 progression in F# they know what you're talking about, and has great situational awareness for the rehersal or gig. The musician spends a majority of the time listening to the band as they play and adjusts accordingly, as opposed to the "listen to me shred!" thing.
Unfortunately I think the largest catagory is the "I own one" group. These are the people that may have the physical dexterityy (or not) to play the instrument but no understanding of music theory or the differences between noodling in your bedroom verses jamming with a band or even just other people around a campfire. These are the guys that play guitar at full blast focusing only on their finger tapping, whammy tricks, and artificial harmonics, or the drummers that play at only one volume, full blast, or say things like "I just go by feel" (a.k.a I refuse to learn anything or get better) . We have all been guilty of being in this catagory for at least a brief time (admit it) but some people never leave it and like I said this is probably the largest group out there.

Personally I would rather play with a band member that had less ability but better attitude and a willingness to learn than the guy with chops that refuses to work with the band. Only singers get a little (and I do mean LITTLE) amount of leeway with this. If your singer has no sense of pitch your screwed. Its as simple as that. If your singer is tone deaf or they're a complete A** get them a karaoke machine and a bus pass and find somebody else.
Go to shows and watch the bands in your area. If you find a good musician, keep in contact whether you're in a band together or not. There may be a band with a great drummer, singer, guitarist, or whatever thats just as unhappy in their situation as you are with yours. It's all networking and you never know when an opportunity will arise to play with a great musician.

