To make my point simple , let's assume two kids have the same capacities and goals but one is from a poor family and neighborhood and the other the opposite. Let's again assume, again for the sake of the argument, both invest the same amount of work and are equally lucky/unlucky. Will they end up in similar situations? Most definitely not.
Even in societies with democratized education systems (ie: France) it has been proven kids from rich families are more successful.
This is not equal opportunity, some people face way more challenge than others because of which social class they come from, what skin color they have, etc. Social mobility in the US is actually pretty bad.
Success is not based on merit, I would dare say the fraction we can attribute to merit is actually small compared to many other factors.
To believe you get what you deserve or work for is an illusion.
So now having the money to send your kids to college is akin to being discriminatory?
I wonder how all those kids who grew up to be rich and successful even though they were raised in the ghetto ever made it? lol
Life isn't fair, but that doesn't mean that anyone can't be successful. EVERYONE can be successful. YOU have to do it though. Don't expect me to do it for you and don't expect the government to take my money to do it for you. That is not the American dream.