Great forum... and here's a quote from one poster who uses 41 AWG wire to wind his bass pickups, instead of "regular" sizes:
"Don't pay too much attention to the conventional wisdom. You can make your pickups any old way that you want to."
EDIT: The more I dig into that forum the more confusing it gets. ...........Understand my confusion now?
The reason you are getting confusing answers is because predicting the final sound of a pickup is a complex problem. In any one basic pickup configuration, there are probably 20 design factors that are tightly interconnected. That is, when you change one factor, it changes some (but not all) of the others to varying degrees.
There isn't any single answer to the question "If I change the wire gauge from 42ga to 44ga, how does it change the sound?" There are multiple answers going in opposite directions. It depends on what the other factors are.
I'm the guy that made the quote above, over on the other forum. So you understand, I didn't mean that wire gauge makes no difference in the sound. What I meant was that I decided on the wire gauge first (because I found a bunch of it for cheap!) and then I adjusted the other design factors to get the sound that I wanted. In particular, I played with the number of turns, the height of the coil, and the density of the layering.
My point was that you can approach pickup design from different angles: Start by fixing several factors, and then adjust the others to tune it. But the factors are all connected, and the direction that the sound changes will vary.
Like I said, there isn't any single easy answer to your question. And taking a poll of a thousand people (most of whom have never actually made a pickup) is going to make you even more confused.
This question is really very similar to the "tone woods" arguments that constantly rage on here at TB. When you take a complex problem and try to pull out one factor, and then try to absolutely define what happens when you change that one factor, you get..........swirling confusion and flying beer bottles. Don't expect a simple answer to a complex problem. You aren't going to find it.
Designing and building a bass, and predicting how it's going to sound, is much more complicated than most of you may realize. I spent a long career as real R & D engineer, designing all kinds of machines. I got into building basses as a semi-retirement business because it's a tremendous technical challenge. It really is complicated (and fun!) to try to figure out.