I am in the midst of starting up a band.
Having issues with my guitarist.
He is very rigid and demands I play very simple bass lines.
To the point, I am getting very frustrated.
If I try to add some colour by playing walk up notes to the root, he has a fit.
He demands I just pound the root note.
We are all in our 50’s and 60’s and this is more of a hobby band, with hopes Of playing play local pubs, picnics, etc when get enough songs together.
I discussed this with my bass teacher and his opinion was..
If you are paying me,
I will play it the way you wish.
If not, then, I will play it the way I think it should be.
He also commented that this attitude is common with guitar players.
My thoughts are...
I am bored pounding the root note, it’s not challenging me.
I want the chance to add some colour.
I am not trying play over everyone and be the star.
Any thoughts..
It’s taken nearly 30 years as a drummer for me to learn what your bass teacher has told you!
If ‘Jimi’ wants to play the bass as well as the six string fine BUT if you are the bass player then you’re the bass player.
end of.
Yes the amount of bands I am in/get to hang with/play live with Has DRASTICALLY reduced since coming to this conclusion I can honestly report that my happiness/contentment/self-respect has shot through the roof!
When you do a performance and you’re inundated with people in the audience coming up to you afterward saying “why the hell are you playing too many notes“; when you have people shouting abuse from the audience “get rid of the bass player“ then sure maybe it’s time for a rethink but until those unlikely events don’t sweat it!
I happen to be a huge fan of punk music (the earlier the better) and yes the type of technique your guitarist seems to be espousing WOULD perfectly fit that style but history shows there are so many exceptions to the rule on every single thing...
indeed nowadays if you want to play live maybe it’s good to stand out somewhat
I notice people asking advice on forums often, deep down, know the real answer to their question and the fact is, deep down, you must know you would never say what what you’re being told back to that guitarist so this is just one of the (far too) many occasions where an insider is sabotaging a creative relationship.
If you can stomach/get a kick out of putting up with this kind of thing AND (yes that’s a big and!) feel that musically/creatively the band is worth it then by all means subjugate your beliefs and hard-won technique but never ever say that this is a hobby! You would, in this scenario, be making a personal sacrifice for art and that’s a very noble thing (honest!)
If, as I suspect, you wouldn’t feel comfortable about witnessing someone else being put through that kind of behaviour in front of you or if you would feel ashamed if someone pointed out that kind of behaviour in yourself then, as I’ve implied earlier, you already know what you’re going to do, Yeah?
Let me stretch this out further (!) By giving an example of the (far too!!) Recent band that made the penny drop for me -I don’t have as good a tutor as you!
I was in a band for years that was much more than a hobby... we were formed by a singer songwriter who would’ve written our first songs by himself on his own and therefore they had very idiosyncratic rhythms & syncopations, if you can call it that, and all manner of weirdness going on in the songs
I was the proud owner of three drum kits and countless symbals and our bass player insisted on playing in a very wonderful varied and complicated way but was wonderfully consistent
Cut a long story short I deliberately ended up with one floor Tom and one snare and that was it rather than thwart the bass player and being part of a rhythm section that overly dominated our front man we, instead of re-educating this guitarist on the notion of not speeding up and slowing down or throwing in extra bars and bits, we just practised till we were tight and solid around him and gave him space and scope the result was IMHO a distinctive new sound
unfortunately our singer song writer eventually made it very obvious that despite what he was saying with words what he was actually doing with actions was having all this as his solo act and us as his expendable backing band
since I put my foot down his band Have never done a single gig in more than a year and I would not like to put money on when they’ll next gig...
I understand that they’ve auditioned and even taken on various drummers over the months and yet no luck
Could it really be that no other drummer with a full drum kit, as I now understand they are going with, cannot do what I can do with no cymbals & just a snare & floor Tom (don’t get me wrong I am good but not THAT good!)?
The truth is if someone’s going to be allowed to be a primadonna then nothing is going to go right with that band and the sooner you start teaching a lesson or leave and let someone else do that then the sooner you can get into a musical situation that DOES suit you
The band, in a way, it’s like any relationship -would you marry someone who didn’t respect you in the hope that eventually they would..?