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IMHO s***can the asshat and find another guitar playerI am in the midst of starting up a band.
Having issues with my guitarist.
He is very rigid and demands I play very simple bass lines.
To the point, I am getting very frustrated.
If I try to add some colour by playing walk up notes to the root, he has a fit.
He demands I just pound the root note.
We are all in our 50’s and 60’s and this is more of a hobby band, with hopes Of playing play local pubs, picnics, etc when get enough songs together.
I discussed this with my bass teacher and his opinion was..
If you are paying me,
I will play it the way you wish.
If not, then, I will play it the way I think it should be.
He also commented that this attitude is common with guitar players.
My thoughts are...
I am bored pounding the root note, it’s not challenging me.
I want the chance to add some colour.
I am not trying play over everyone and be the star.
Any thoughts..
Life is too short to be unhappy. Some folks love to crack the whip on ANYONE and EVERYONE. There are a LOT of bands where the members play the same music and play music for the same reasons that you are. I personally would walk away. Driving home from a practice or a gig and feeling GREAT about what you did is the most important thing. Driving to anything to do with the band and feeling bad before you even get there is not doing anybody good. All my best and happy turkey day.Any thoughts..
Apparently your guitarist is one of those truly misguided and arrogant musicians(?) who think because a reqular bass has two fewer strings it must be an easier instrument to play. This nonsense has always REALLY bothered me. There is no understanding on the guitarist's part that bass is a totally different instrument. I suggest you show up with a six-string, any fretless, or an upright and say, "Here you go. Now play!" That should shut him up in a hurry.Overplaying...I am hardly playing.
I am not playing the wrong notes.
And that is not his complaint.
Songs include..
Brass In Pocket..
Ho Hey
Peaceful Easy Feeling
We are not talking Intrucate arrangements here.
AMEN!I have a number of my own songs that I do want to be played a certain way but even then, I'm open to suggestions. If this approach represents one song out of eight or so, I think it's perfectly acceptable. As for hotshot guitarists, they are a dime a dozen.
I'm your age and I know how things are. Beyond just age, the industry these days is such that some A&R guy is not going to see one of our shows and come chasing after us with a contract. Even when the band works its tail off, puts their music out there, and promote the daylights out of ourselves (doing what record company guys used to do when we were kids) and build up a local cult following, even then no record company would jump in and spend money on you. Outfits like Clear Channel determine where the money goes and what gets played (as far as kids today know, the only two Hendrix songs are Foxey Lady and Watchtower).
The bottom line is that we play for whatever we can make on the local (and hopefully, regional) circuit. We'll put together some self-produced albums and sell a couple of CDs, but that's it.
There are a lot of middle-aged presumptive rock gods out there who are still living in a dream in this regard. They do not have any stadium gigs in their future. At best, if they're hugely popular locally and have some contacts, they might warm up for a bigger band once or twice. In my opinion, they need to set their egos aside and face reality.
The Beatles did not have a lead guitarist, shredding his way through like EVH. The Who did not have a lead guitarist, just a rhythm guitarist with attitude. And a ton of successful bands did not feature guitar wonders (the Clash, NIrvana, and most bands of the 80s).
In short, lead guitarists are not as important as they think they are.
At our age, the point is to have fun and to make a little money. I don't have time for prima donnas. I doubt you do either.
You could just jam with your drummer on the side and help each other grow, have fun and let loose. Sometimes I wasn't happy with the songs I had to play in bands and I would get together with other members 1 on 1 for side projects. Everyone has their own style and some folks just wanna stick to root notes, it's good practice being in a band but it sounds like he's holding you back. Eno realized it was time to leave Roxy Music when he thought more about doing his laundry than focusing on the music during their sets.I am in the midst of starting up a band.
Having issues with my guitarist.
He is very rigid and demands I play very simple bass lines.
To the point, I am getting very frustrated.
If I try to add some colour by playing walk up notes to the root, he has a fit.
He demands I just pound the root note.
We are all in our 50’s and 60’s and this is more of a hobby band, with hopes Of playing play local pubs, picnics, etc when get enough songs together.
I discussed this with my bass teacher and his opinion was..
If you are paying me,
I will play it the way you wish.
If not, then, I will play it the way I think it should be.
He also commented that this attitude is common with guitar players.
My thoughts are...
I am bored pounding the root note, it’s not challenging me.
I want the chance to add some colour.
I am not trying play over everyone and be the star.
Any thoughts..
Guitarists forget that there are an unlimited amount of people to replace them and sound as good or better. Not so with the bottom end. Great bassists are much fewer and harder to find.Apparently your guitarist is one of those truly misguided and arrogant musicians(?) who think because a reqular bass has two fewer strings it must be an easier instrument to play. This nonsense has always REALLY bothered me. There is no understanding on the guitarist's part that bass is a totally different instrument. I suggest you show up with a six-string, any fretless, or an upright and say, "Here you go. Now play!" That should shut him up in a hurry.
This reminds me of something that happened with a band I was with a while back. The guitarist was badgering me about misplaying the baseline and chord structure. He a shoulder back with me that hiolds pedals, strings and various bass things. On this particular occasion I happened to have the music for the song in question in my bag. "Here", I said as I handed the guitarist the sheet. He blanched and said "You can read this?" I looked at him and said, "Of course. Are you saying you can't?" Needless to say, he immediately shut up.
As for overplaying, a serious, competent musician plays what he feels given the chordal and rhythm structure of the tune.
Of course, I have been accused of overplaying. I've been a bassist for nearly 50 years and have never been able to play "in the pocket" for en entire song. I refer to Jack Casady as a model bassist. He weaves in and out of the "pocket" playing with scales and adding grace notes as he feels them. I am, of course, no Jack Casady, though his playing, along with Jack Bruce's have pretty much defined my approach to the instrument. Now finding other musicians who understand and share thus approach is the incredibly hard part.
Thanks for reading. Comment at will...
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In short, lead guitarists are not as important as they think they are.
At our age, the point is to have fun and to make a little money. I don't have time for prima donnas. I doubt you do either.
but when I play a cover, I like to play it EXACT
Sounds to me like he wants you to be "true" to the hit-record version. And there's nothing wrong with that, if he and the rest of the band are doing the same thing. But if any of you are playing anything different -- making the songs your own distinctive versions -- then I think the guitarist is wrong to expect you to stick to the "famous" version.Overplaying...I am hardly playing.
I am not playing the wrong notes.
And that is not his complaint.
Songs include..
Brass In Pocket..
Ho Hey
Peaceful Easy Feeling
We are not talking Intrucate arrangements here.