I am in the midst of starting up a band.
Having issues with my guitarist.
He is very rigid and demands I play very simple bass lines.
To the point, I am getting very frustrated.
If I try to add some colour by playing walk up notes to the root, he has a fit.
He demands I just pound the root note.
We are all in our 50’s and 60’s and this is more of a hobby band, with hopes Of playing play local pubs, picnics, etc when get enough songs together.
I discussed this with my bass teacher and his opinion was..
If you are paying me,
I will play it the way you wish.
If not, then, I will play it the way I think it should be.
He also commented that this attitude is common with guitar players.
My thoughts are...
I am bored pounding the root note, it’s not challenging me.
I want the chance to add some colour.
I am not trying play over everyone and be the star.
Any thoughts..
I didnt read every responses in this thread, but ive had to deal with the same issue. One time the lead guitarist got pissed at me for not playing what he thought would be better when everyone else said to let me play what I want haha.
Anyway, your teacher is right. Its a hobby band so Im assuming your doing covers, rehearsing or free, and don't expect to get paid right away. For your time and skill to be used for free, do what you want. Unfortunately there are guitarist like that and feel that they need to control everything (ie: drums only play basic rock beat, bass only plays quarter notes and guitarist gets to do what ever he/she wants). If he was paying you for rehearsals and guaranteed pay per gig, sure, but at that point its not a hobby band and you are a hired musician. I play in one group like that and Im fine with it, because he is paying me for a service and to make that money I play what he wants so I get that return call so I get more money.
On the other hand, if its something your starting from scratch with someone and you all have to commit time for free, everyone should be able to have fun. Plus, at least for me, verbatim covers are not great. There are bands that get hired to do this, but I have never nor will I ever pay to see a band cover a song verbatim. Make the songs your own and be creative. Personally, I didnt spend years studying theory, jazz, and saving for high quality gear just to play simple quarter notes. There is a time where that would be musically appropriate, but I will use my knowledge and instinct to decide when that is. If the guitarist wants a bassist like that, he can either pay you to play what he wants or find a bassist thats willing to play like that.
Basically its one or the other:
1) Pays you to play the way he wants
2) Lets you play what you want
3) You find other musicians to work with that understand that its not all about them and allows room for creative expression.