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Sounds like you’re on the right track. It can be easy to psyche oneself out by being overly critical of oneself. It’s important to be critical but it can be easy to go too far and actually hinder progress. You’ll be fine, just keep moving forward as you have been. Man, you should have heard some of the mistakes that I made this weekend. Yikes! You’d think that after a couple thousand gigs I’d have this perfection thing down.Thanks everyone for all the amazing answers: there is so much value in them!
Reading how everyone is at ease with his mistakes really helped me putting things into perspective.
Besides the many great advices on how to practice\play (some of them I was already doing, some of them I will surely embrace from now on), you made me understand two very important things:
-mistakes do not matter that much, but our attitude towards the mistakes can make all the difference.
-some time it helps to stop, and measure our progress by looking back at what we achieved rather then by looking forward to what we still miss.
I was stuck in the ‘I keep making mistakes, I am not improving’ state of mind. I now realize that initially my mistakes used to throw everyone off, or even stop the tune, but now not everyone even notice them. I used to get lost and take a couple measures to jump back in, now I am usually back by the next beat. Thanks for helping me understand that I am making some nice progress, and most importantly that mistakes will keep happening as I’ll improve even more. I will be working on staying focused and relaxed, and let those mistakes go the moment I notice them.

That’s one of the best things I have ever read on TB. Beautifully stated!The music is in you - you are a part of what brings it to life.
I don't think there's any correlation for me between complexity and likelihood of mistakesIt’s weird how I can pull off some pretty wild licks, then screw up playing something totally basic. It’s like my mind just gets away from me momentarily.
Two things come to mind:
I once had a lesson with Roy Vogt. I did a certain figure, and he remarked 'I would try that HERE instead of THERE on the fingerboard, your odds of success are much better'. A window into the mind of a veteran master player, made me stop and think about where to play this or that. Of course I had more choices on a five than I did a four.
Also, on songs I know real well (or a chart in front of me), I do my best to know what I'm playing now while thinking several bars ahead to a key change, a left turn into the chorus or bridge, etc., than I'm ready. Think of driving down a street and know you have to turn left three blocks ahead. Same idea.