It sure didn’t happen tonight, that’s for sure!
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Will it ever happen?
I am 30 and started playing during the pandemic (mostly self thought, but I finally started taking lessons). Last April I started playing in bands and I am now in a metal cover band, and a jazz group from my local music school that covers mainly bossa nova stuff. I never played out yet.
I practice every day, and spend a lot of time perfecting the material I play with both bands. Sure enough, I still have to play a single piece perfectly at reharsal. Either I miss the drummer slightly, fret a note poorly, mess up the dynamics, play the wrong note, sometimes even plain forget how the next part goes. I can feel when I get ‘in the zone’ and everything is just perfect, but most times I am either overthinking, or getting stupidly distracted and then the mistake happens.
The other cats seems to be happy with my playing, but I really want to be able to play perfectly ‘most of the times’ as opposed to ‘most of the tune’… Some times I think it’s no biggie and I will get there, since I am still a green player with little experience…Othertimes I get discouraged and think it will never happen: it’s just beyond me, I am not really cut for this and all that stuff…
What do you people think? Any word of advice? Did you also struggle with consistency? When did you stop making mistakes? Or do they just keep happening and we just learn to mask them and live with it?

Will it ever happen?
I am 30 and started playing during the pandemic (mostly self thought, but I finally started taking lessons). Last April I started playing in bands and I am now in a metal cover band, and a jazz group from my local music school that covers mainly bossa nova stuff. I never played out yet.
I practice every day, and spend a lot of time perfecting the material I play with both bands. Sure enough, I still have to play a single piece perfectly at reharsal. Either I miss the drummer slightly, fret a note poorly, mess up the dynamics, play the wrong note, sometimes even plain forget how the next part goes. I can feel when I get ‘in the zone’ and everything is just perfect, but most times I am either overthinking, or getting stupidly distracted and then the mistake happens.
The other cats seems to be happy with my playing, but I really want to be able to play perfectly ‘most of the times’ as opposed to ‘most of the tune’… Some times I think it’s no biggie and I will get there, since I am still a green player with little experience…Othertimes I get discouraged and think it will never happen: it’s just beyond me, I am not really cut for this and all that stuff…
What do you people think? Any word of advice? Did you also struggle with consistency? When did you stop making mistakes? Or do they just keep happening and we just learn to mask them and live with it?