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About consistency and playing without mistakes

Will it ever happen?

I am 30 and started playing during the pandemic (mostly self thought, but I finally started taking lessons). Last April I started playing in bands and I am now in a metal cover band, and a jazz group from my local music school that covers mainly bossa nova stuff. I never played out yet.

I practice every day, and spend a lot of time perfecting the material I play with both bands. Sure enough, I still have to play a single piece perfectly at reharsal. Either I miss the drummer slightly, fret a note poorly, mess up the dynamics, play the wrong note, sometimes even plain forget how the next part goes. I can feel when I get ‘in the zone’ and everything is just perfect, but most times I am either overthinking, or getting stupidly distracted and then the mistake happens.

The other cats seems to be happy with my playing, but I really want to be able to play perfectly ‘most of the times’ as opposed to ‘most of the tune’… Some times I think it’s no biggie and I will get there, since I am still a green player with little experience…Othertimes I get discouraged and think it will never happen: it’s just beyond me, I am not really cut for this and all that stuff…

What do you people think? Any word of advice? Did you also struggle with consistency? When did you stop making mistakes? Or do they just keep happening and we just learn to mask them and live with it?
 
Whatever happens, just continue with the music. It's important to realize that (a) you will always make mistakes and forget things, and (b) that the momentum of the music continues even if you screw something up. If you need to fake it for a bars, no one will notice, but you need to get back with the band. Over-practicing helps a lot to gain confidence. Also, you may lose 25-30% of your abilities under stress, so you have to be that much more well prepared (sometimes practicing songs WAY too fast is a good exercise that proves to yourself that you really know the piece, then playing it at normal speed seems easy). In any case, breath and have fun. Sounds like you're doing things right so far.
 
I spent 15 years playing bass trombone in a mid-level symphony. I was always more nervous in rehearsal than in performance. If a mistake happened in rehearsal the conductor could stop and call attention to it. In the performance the music kept going no matter what and the audience seldom was aware. As a result, we would usually nail the performances.
 
Everybody makes mistakes. When you drop a clam, don't make a face or tense up over it. Just keep going and chances are no one will notice unless it is a major bomb like playing in the wrong key. Little flubs here and there are hardly noticeable so just keep playing like it never happened and enjoy yourself. Good luck.;)
 
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Concentration is a key point. I was playing a gig recently, did great 5 songs, then on the 6th instead of concentrating on the song I started thinking, "Man those first 5 songs went great..." a few clams later... then my mind starts wandering "Dang, I made some mistakes there during this song, etc... etc..." more clams.

I need really to get back into playing the song instead of letting the mind wander and continue tanking.
 
This is a problem for me too, simply because trying to remember a huge repertoire of songs that I don't play very often leads to mistakes. I'm not alone in this.

This is sobering to try, but you should sing the bassline as you play it in practice (hum it on a gig if you need to). If you can't sing it, you don't really know it.

If you are trying to play something note-for-note from memory, for me singing along is the only way.
 
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I had to learn this life lesson a long time ago and it applies here. Sounds to me that YOU WORRY TOO MUCH!
Yes, do your best because it's important to everyone, but even when your band reaches a point where everything is consistently tight, there's always someone making a little mistake. Musicians are usually the only ones who notice it. So carry on and enjoy what you're doing. If everyone was perfect all the time, it would be pretty boring.
 
We are humans... far from perfect..
Best thing about mistakes, or happy accidents is you are going to develop speedy recovery skills.
I used to beat myself up pretty good when i would flub up, and it does not solve a thing, but head down and playing through puts it behind you.
One thing about a bad note, the good one is a fret away either direction from the bad one. Cheers!:bassist:
 
Will it ever happen?

I am 30 and started playing during the pandemic (mostly self thought, but I finally started taking lessons). Last April I started playing in bands and I am now in a metal cover band, and a jazz group from my local music school that covers mainly bossa nova stuff. I never played out yet.

I practice every day, and spend a lot of time perfecting the material I play with both bands. Sure enough, I still have to play a single piece perfectly at reharsal. Either I miss the drummer slightly, fret a note poorly, mess up the dynamics, play the wrong note, sometimes even plain forget how the next part goes. I can feel when I get ‘in the zone’ and everything is just perfect, but most times I am either overthinking, or getting stupidly distracted and then the mistake happens.

The other cats seems to be happy with my playing, but I really want to be able to play perfectly ‘most of the times’ as opposed to ‘most of the tune’… Some times I think it’s no biggie and I will get there, since I am still a green player with little experience…Othertimes I get discouraged and think it will never happen: it’s just beyond me, I am not really cut for this and all that stuff…

What do you people think? Any word of advice? Did you also struggle with consistency? When did you stop making mistakes? Or do they just keep happening and we just learn to mask them and live with it?

It's all about focused practice and more experience playing the tunes. Nothing else counts.
 
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Mistakes? I don’t make those. :DEvery note I play, relative to the song and its rhythm, is played purposely. Sometimes I like what I played and other times I don’t, and I’ll commit to not play it that way again the next time. :thumbsup:
 

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