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Afroman?

After Dimebag Darrell, you jump on stage uninvited and you get what you get.

The old man bitterness is strong up in here, and I'm pretty bitter my own self. Jeez. Imagine their roles reversed, and big drunk Afroman dancing up to pretty young woman on stage uninvited before getting put in his place. Anyone wanna step up to tell her how wrong it was to knock him out?
 
After Dimebag Darrell, you jump on stage uninvited and you get what you get.

The old man bitterness is strong up in here, and I'm pretty bitter my own self. Jeez. Imagine their roles reversed, and big drunk Afroman dancing up to pretty young woman on stage uninvited before getting put in his place. Anyone wanna step up to tell her how wrong it was to knock him out?

Really? I'm fixing up a fresh bag of popcorn.
 
Pussies? Nope.

Real people who are shocked and stunned at real life violence.

No one would have come out ahead by decking Afrotwat.

Think what you want about me, I don't care because violence doesn't make one a man. The damage was done and he was right to see if his girl was okay.
 
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Pussies? Nope.

Real people who are shocked and stunned at real life violence.

No one would have come out ahead by decking Afrotwat.

Think what you want about me, I don't care because violence doesn't make one a man. The damage was done and he was right to see if his girl was okay.

And I bet they all finished the show frozen in place like the stunned pussies they were.

The stage isn't a sanctimonious pulpit and many real, live people realize this and don't really fit the mold of the dazed bystander you broadly paint with your statement.
 
And I bet they all finished the show frozen in place like the stunned pussies they were.

Whatever.

I've made it just fine through life by meeting anger with calm and violence with peace. I've seen plenty of my friends and people in situations react violently and all they ever got was more trouble.

Believe me, I've wanted to do real harm to people but once you go there they've won.

I have defended a girl once when she was insulted by a biker and all I got was a broken nose. Had I reacted to his head butt I would have been knifed or seriously beaten by his buddies, who he obviously relied on as he was a little chubby twerp.

Real life isn't much like the movies. I don't know anyone who ever came out ahead by fighting. If you can't cut and run, and need to defend yourself or someone, fine, but otherwise? Not in my world. Self control is the way forward.
 
Whatever.

I've made it just fine through life by meeting anger with calm and violence with peace. I've seen plenty of my friends and people in situations react violently and all they ever got was more trouble.

Believe me, I've wanted to do real harm to people but once you go there they've won.

I have defended a girl once when she was insulted by a biker and all I got was a broken nose. Had I reacted to his head butt I would have been knifed or seriously beaten by his buddies, who he obviously relied on as he was a little chubby twerp.

Real life isn't much like the movies. I don't know anyone who ever came out ahead by fighting. If you can't cut and run, and need to defend yourself or someone, fine, but otherwise? Not in my world. Self control is the way forward.

I absolutely agree and we're probably more alike in our pacifism than we differ. I'm not a big guy and stay out of trouble for my own personal health more than some innate sense that my anger will somehow win the day in a physical confrontation, but in such a case as we have here, I think it says more about the buffoons in the crowd than it does about the washed up phenomenon that is Afroman. Of course, we can't see what happens after the fact so who is to say he wasn't chased out of there by a pack of redbull and jäger swilling 24yr old bros, but somehow I doubt that's the case.

I suppose it's hard for me to watch this type of thing without a measure of karma being dolloped on the offender in the same video.
 
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After Dimebag Darrell, you jump on stage uninvited and you get what you get.

The old man bitterness is strong up in here, and I'm pretty bitter my own self. Jeez. Imagine their roles reversed, and big drunk Afroman dancing up to pretty young woman on stage uninvited before getting put in his place. Anyone wanna step up to tell her how wrong it was to knock him out?

It's sad that you can't tell the difference between sucker punching a college girl and defending yourself against an stacker.
 
I agree completely with what both petrus61 and One Drop are saying, and in this case the boyfriend was totally correct in ignoring the Afroass and looking after his girlfriend... The part that amazes me is that no one else in the crowd did anything about the violence and he continued playing as if nothing happen until the stage lights came on and the police escorted him off the stage.
 
Whatever.

I've made it just fine through life by meeting anger with calm and violence with peace. I've seen plenty of my friends and people in situations react violently and all they ever got was more trouble.

Believe me, I've wanted to do real harm to people but once you go there they've won.

I have defended a girl once when she was insulted by a biker and all I got was a broken nose. Had I reacted to his head butt I would have been knifed or seriously beaten by his buddies, who he obviously relied on as he was a little chubby twerp.

Real life isn't much like the movies. I don't know anyone who ever came out ahead by fighting. If you can't cut and run, and need to defend yourself or someone, fine, but otherwise? Not in my world. Self control is the way forward.
There is a time for violence. It is not when a girl gets her feelings hurt.....but it is when she gets sucker punched.
 
There is a time for violence. It is not when a girl gets her feelings hurt.....but it is when she gets sucker punched.
What would it fix for someone to beat up Afroman?
This would be showing off your manhood in front of the crowd, not defending anyone.
Who are you again to judge and punish the guy? Judge Dredd?
 
What would it fix for someone to beat up Afroman?
This would be showing off your manhood in front of the crowd, not defending anyone.
Who are you again to judge and punish the guy? Judge Dredd?

I greatly disagree. He's sucker punched her once....why would he do it again. I wouldn't watch long enough to wait for his next move.

Regardless of what some of you have been taught, there is a time violence is appropriate.
 
I greatly disagree. He's sucker punched her once....why would he do it again. I wouldn't watch long enough to wait for his next move.

Regardless of what some of you have been taught, there is a time violence is appropriate.

I agree with you that there is a time for it, just not here. She was lying in the stage and he was playing guitar, there was no further risk. What good would have come from a revenge punch, which it would have been?

Now I would completely understand and sympathise had he decked the a-hole, but I would never judge him for not reacting to violence with violence.

Easy to be a tough guy on the Internet, in any case. All the people I know who regularly get into fights (for whatever reasons) have serious anger and behavioural issues, or low self esteem.

I guarantee in real life you most all have reacted the same as the crowd. What would happen if Afrodick had been attacked by the mob? When do you stop, a kick to the head, beat him to death? Get real, life isn't a Hollywood movie.
 
So you're saying it would have been more appropriate to jump on stage and beat up the guy than to gently help the girl out of stage?
Guess which option solved a problem and which one would have brought more? Who took a real risk here?

I'm saying that, sitting behind your computer in your cozy little den, with the benefit of hindsight and the full video, it's easy to "predict" that the best course of action is to "gently" guide the beaten woman off stage. That scene, however, could have played out much differently and, had I watched my wife or girlfriend get cold cocked by a full grown man, I wouldn't have sat there and waited to see what may have happened next. A "man" capable of sucker punching a woman also isn't beyond kicking her, or doing real damage
 
I'm saying that, sitting behind your computer in your cozy little den, with the benefit of hindsight and the full video, it's easy to "predict" that the best course of action is to "gently" guide the beaten woman off stage. That scene, however, could have played out much differently and, had I watched my wife or girlfriend get cold cocked by a full grown man, I wouldn't have sat there and waited to see what may have happened next. A "man" capable of sucker punching a woman also isn't beyond kicking her, or doing real damage

He says posting from the frontline.

You're pretty condescending.
 
I agree with you that there is a time for it, just not here. She was lying in the stage and he was playing guitar, there was no further risk. What good would have come from a revenge punch, which it would have been?

Now I would completely understand and sympathise had he decked the a-hole, but I would never judge him for not reacting to violence with violence.

Easy to be a tough guy on the Internet, in any case. All the people I know who regularly get into fights (for whatever reasons) have serious anger and behavioural issues, or low self esteem.

I guarantee in real life you most all have reacted the same as the crowd. What would happen if Afrodick had been attacked by the mob? When do you stop, a kick to the head, beat him to death? Get real, life isn't a Hollywood movie.

I've been in very few fights in my life, but I've been in enough to know how I would react. You can call me an internet tough guy if it makes you feel better.

Its shameful how "defense" and "revenge" get contorted by so many people. I'm not saying the guy should have been "attacked by the mob" but he certainly would have gotten hit to make sure he was away from the girl and not going to continue his attack.