I get a call a few weeks back from a guy who was refered by drummer I played with once. They need a bass player for an afternoon gig, it's going to be a thrown together band for a church BBQ fundraiser/open jam but as the host band we will get paid. I ask him to get me the particulars via email (songs I might want to look at, location and time etc) A week passes I see an ad for the event $10 a head no mention of charity or church, yet I still haven't received any info as I requested. A different guy calls me tells me the 1st guy lost the email addy. He wants me to show up for 2 rehearsals before the event. I ask again about what I should expect to be paid? He said well what ever is leftover after the food is paid for we will get and split 4 ways, but it isn't about money it is about fun. So I say " I am in 2 bands and having all the fun I need, if you can't guarentee me $100, I really can't invest my time." With that he says forget it and hung up the phone... Am I unreasonable?