You are NOT understanding what @Redbrangus said.
I hear you both.
First let me Remove the Crossover CircuitBoard and see what that does.
Eliminate Extraneous Problems first then see what this leads to.
Both of us (Redbrangus and me) are pro audio guys in another life, and while it was crystal clear to me what he was saying, it clearly escaped you. Your comment indicates that you are not understanding the whole concept of eq.
One of the primary applications of eq is to remove energy in areas (frequency ranges) that are in excess. Then, if there are areas that are insufficient, eq is then added to increase the energy in those areas.
One caveat though, EQ only works for signal issues in the frequency domain and not in the time domain. If the problem in your case is caused by a significant time offset between the two sections (I do not think this is the case), eq is not going to help much.