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"Are you good?"

I also have a problem telling people I'm good. It just seems like a weird thing to say. That said, I'm never short of compliments from people telling me I'm great after gigs, and whenever I look out into our audiences there are always more people doing air bass than any other instrument :D Then again, it doesn't hurt that I probably play with some of the best guitarists and the best drummer in Knoxville for our age bracket. They definitely help me sound better lol.
 
I also have a problem telling people I'm good. It just seems like a weird thing to say. That said, I'm never short of compliments from people telling me I'm great after gigs, and whenever I look out into our audiences there are always more people doing air bass than any other instrument :D Then again, it doesn't hurt that I probably play with some of the best guitarists and the best drummer in Knoxville for our age bracket. They definitely help me sound better lol.

Yep. Nothing is better than having the guys in your band give high praise about you to others in the audience. The guitarist in my main band is one of the top three here in Fresno, and though it's a great feeling when I hear it, I do get a little embarrassed when he tells other people what a great musician I am. It is just strange because I don't see myself on the same level as him.
 
Good enough to get by and play with people who are much better than I am..and they like me.

I think a lot of players don't realize how important of a factor that is. I wouldn't consider myself in the same league as my guitarists or drummer, but they all love working with me and have told me that they wouldn't want to work with anyone else in their projects.
 
I think a lot of players don't realize how important of a factor that is. I wouldn't consider myself in the same league as my guitarists or drummer, but they all love working with me and have told me that they wouldn't want to work with anyone else in their projects.

Then you're good. Anytime players, no matter how good they are, want and enjoy playing with you, that's what makes you good. So next time someone asks you if you're good, say yes with complete confidence. ;)