Agreed. One thing I think we all will agree on is playing bass is supposed to be fun and relieve stress, not something that creates stress and frustration.
You may not be interested in this but its just a thought. When I pick up a bass and play the same thing over and over in different forms I just stop playing bass for a little bit and work on something else. Messing around on the harmonica is something I enjoy when I start to get frustrated with my bass playing. I'm starting to try to learn how to make effects pedals, and eventually will probably start making basses when I can get the tools. Still music oriented, just in a different way. Doesn't have to be for long.
Speaking of effects, if you haven't already done so, maybe thrown on like an overdrive, envelope filter, chorus, or something - they often make a player play differently including myself. Might open some doors for you, maybe not if you want to be pure. I don't see the harm though.
No point in forcing being an awesome bass player if it's making you frustrated. Bass is not going anywhere - it will always be there to be your best friend, and if you don't stop for good you won't get worse.
Yes it is fun and it is about enjoyment, but it is also about learning, learning is what satisfies the soul....so to speak.
Here is how it works in basic form, most players left to their own devices only learn what is familier to them, if they look at it in a deeper way they will see common links to why they like and learn what they do, it is the same information but just rearranged.
Now i am not here to preach to anyone, but i see a lot of time being wasted by young players going down dead ends, doing things or looking as so called musical approaches that are not.....but it is their time..... and we really learn better from mistakes, making mistakes is good, it reinforces what we do not want to do.
Play a line great and that is it, you play it a thousand times great and you learn nothing, play it bad once and you learn more from that one performance than you did from the thousand great ones, and you learn a different lesson.
So what is a C chord ? If you know that then playing it slap does not teach you anything else, nor does playing it with any effect, nor does playing it in any time sig, or any genre.
Nor does playing it on a different instrument, or on a different bass, or in a different band, you learn no more information about a C Chord than you already know.....this is the foundation of dissatisfaction, this gets you feeling you are lacking, this demotivates you, makes you question yourself and ultimately start thinking about what you do and is it worth it.....now you have a rut forming.
Now i can speak from experience, not from being in a rut, but for taking players out of them and that is done by changing their thinking, so changing their learning process, this means feeling un-comfortable and a bit out of their depth or right out their comfort zone.
Now they cannot think about anything other than learning the task in front of them, so no more time for negative thoughts because a positive new task needs the attention.
Sure we can doubt ourselves and feel we may never do it, but all that is is an overwhelming feeling, trying to much to fast.
As a player and as a teacher i share this burden and together we get through it, as should other player/teacher relationships should do. We break it down together in to small parts and slowly build it in to something bigger, but it is not a single player job, it takes more than one perspective in thinking to make it work.
So recognising it within your playing is one thing, being comfortable with it is another, a player should always be comfortable in their playing skin, do not base your worth on what others do, base it on not how you think of yourself, but what you believe in yourself.
When push comes to shove it will be what you believe you are.......... that will always win over what you think you are...........
Shakespeare wrote, in Measure for measure,
“Our doubts are traitors,
and make us lose the good we oft might win,
by fearing to attempt.”
Even though written centuries ago, it is a truth observed then as is now, that many just fear the act of trying, not fear the result of it.....and so it is with learning, they feel failure is not worth it, but as i have said "we learn more and better from failure than we do from success" as it makes us have to look deeper in to ourselves, and not only do some do not like what they find, they will not confront it till it confronts them.
But that is usually not their choice, so they cannot control its consequences and choke on what comes out.
Enough philosophy for one night and just changing thinking by having another opinion does wonders.
